I always had a fear of losing people but I do not have it anymore.I got this golden lesson a few months back and will love to share it.
Fear of losing people was one of my biggest fears. If things did not turn out the way they should have with someone- I started feeling lonely.Until one day, I heard someone say this and it has stuck with me ever since. The saying goes as follows:
" People either come for a reason or season or stay forever"
This has left a great impression on me.I have stopped putting in unnecessary efforts to make someone stay. Those who want to stay will and those who do not want to will ultimately go. Do not drain yourself out in the process of pleasing someone. Make the required effort. I hope it is enough.
And If I want to leave, I do that. But with all the respect and morality. Be true to yourself. Do not try to please everyone because it is not possible .Accept this bitter truth.
Will love to know your views on this one. Constructive criticism is always welcomed. And thank you for reading...