OMG. Wedding, Wedding. Snoink's getting married!

I've been to both kinds, and both kinds are awesome and fun. The former is obviously a bit more expensive, but it's still pretty awesome. Usually more "Wow!" inducing than the latter. However, the latter is quieter, if you're not that into big social events with loud people. It can also be more kicked back and casual if you're not one for formalities.

Again, the former is more expensive, but depending on your preference in general, is probably worth it. Rather than being limited to a menu of what people you know know how to cook well, you're more limited based on what you want to pay for. On the other hand, if you were going for the informal, potentially more intimate ceremony, then potluck would probably be a good option. You might also do a combination of both to get the best of both worlds.

Both can be gorgeous, depending on the location. If outside, then probably make sure you have an in door location as a back up in case the weather decides to do a 180 on you. If you're planning at holding your wedding at someone's house, perfect! You've got both options, and assuming you know this person, it's also most likely the cheaper option. If you're planning on renting a location out, however, then that's awesome too. Again, opens up more options for you. My uncle got married this last fall in a nearby park by a river, and it was beautiful. The weather was nice the entire time, and the autumn leaves in the background made for some stunning pictures. My other uncle got married at a vineyard, and it was equally as beautiful. The ceremony was held outside, but they had the building rented out as well, so equal amounts of time were spent in doors and out doors. Both ceremonies were gorgeous. As long as you make sure to have an indoor back up option for the weather, you can't really go wrong.