I've never been that attached. Heck, I've rarely cried even from the works of published authers. The closest I can remember being to tears was getting a little misty eyed. I've been deeply moved by a work, just not in the form of tears.
As to my own characters, I don't get that sad about it. Sure, I admitt that I sometimes feel sorry and feel for them, but I look forward to the end and admire how they've changed. I kinda feel proud of them. I've already got the ending of my novel planned out, the entire final scene, and there's nothing that's going to change it. That's easier than it sounds since it's an epilogue. I plan to have an emotional impact for that scene that both ties everything up and make it so the reader can't help but smile.
I want my characters to live, and life is unfair, unsympathetic, and painful. Awful things are going to happen to everybody, in every way one can think of and more. But good things happen as well, things that bring joy and meaning to our lives. And we grow from our pains, hopefully. I love to see my characters grow, to watch them live. To me, they're not just characters in a story, they're people that I feel I could meet as real people, that if I was capable of meeting them, I would find a person there whom I could interact with like anybody else in the real world. I feel pride at how they overcome life's obstacles, like there was the possibility that while I was writing they wouldn't make it. At times they fail, but in the end they get back up, even if it takes them awhile to do so. At least the characters I've made thus far. I just love watching them grow and change, through good times and bad. A character may die, or lives may be forever ruined, but still, I have pride in what my characters have accomplished, the sacrifices they've made, the people they've become, and I can't help but feel that all things considered, in the end, it's a happy ending, and I'll close the book with a smile on my face as well as my heart.
(Boy, talk about letting my emotions speak, but man, I can hardly describe the joy I get when creating a developing a character.)
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