Struggles of Criticism.

.Authors note: This is the third thing I am ever publishing, I'm still quite new to YWS. I'm so far enjoying it, trying to get used to reviewing. It's fun so far, liking the criticism. 

Receiving criticism can be tough; it's not easy to handle for a lot of folks. I can definitely relate; my mind starts racing like a storm. "Who do they think they are? These are my words; I poured my heart into them." Blah, blah, blah. It's really not a big deal.

Writing is like trying to dance with two left feet, you know? My grammar is like a runaway train, always going off the tracks. People have told me, "Hey, your grammar needs some work," and I'm like, "Yeah, I know, it's a work in progress." I rely on tools like Grammarly to help me clean up the mess, like using a broom to sweep up the crumbs after a big meal.

And then there's the whole staying on-topic thing. It's like trying to wrangle a bunch of hyperactive puppies; they just want to run off and do their own thing. I hardly ever edit my work; I just write and then hit publish. But then I go back and read it, and it's like, "Wait, when I wrote this, it sounded so much better?!" It's like trying to unscramble eggs, you know?

Instead, I let my words flow freely, capturing the raw emotions and thoughts that swirl within me. My poetry is a reflection of my inner chaos, a glimpse into the tangled web of my mind. It may not be neat or structured, but it is honest and true. And in that honesty, I find solace and peace.

Critics may point out flaws and errors in my work, but I welcome their feedback with open arms. Their critiques help me grow and improve as a writer, pushing me to strive for excellence. I may not always agree with their assessments, but I value their insights and perspectives. After all, it is through their eyes that I can see my work in a new light, gaining a deeper understanding of my own writing.

Discovering more about myself is like peeling an onion, with each layer revealing something new and surprising. It's amusing at first, but as you delve deeper, you realize the intricacies of your own abilities. Just like how my friend excels in plot structures and grammar, while I thrive in capturing raw emotions and painting vivid pictures, (Yes, I may be tooting my own horn a bit here.)

This platform is a haven for critics—a place where they feel at home. It serves as a guide for young writers, helping them find their unique voice and style. While I may write chaotically, I appreciate the feedback and am attempting to improve. Although I must admit, I may have unintentionally rhymed in one of these paragraphs.

Criticism is good. Well, constructive criticism is good. Bland critiques don't help at all. Criticism is like a spicy taco on a Tuesday night; it can either make you feel alive or leave you with a bad case of heartburn. Constructive criticism is like a perfectly seasoned taco, adding flavor and depth to your writing or work. But bland critiques are like a taco with no filling; they just leave you feeling empty and unsatisfied. So, let's sprinkle some constructive criticism on our tacos and make them delicious! I'll give you a critique now. As I'm writing this, I misspell any word that is criticism or critique. I have to use Grammarly to know how to spell it. It's funny.

Embracing criticism is like going on a blind date; it can be nerve-wracking, but it might just lead to something beautiful. Some people handle it with grace, while others, like me, need a moment to recover from the blow. But at the end of the day, it's all about growth and improvement. So, let's put on our best outfit, take a deep breath, and face that critique head-on!

Back to the point, because I'm straying again. Criticism is good for humanity; it helps authors, business workers, and restaurants. Some take it better than others or like me, you get butt hurt for a while, then reassure yourself that it's good for learning. Whichever it is, it's amazing to learn from others with better experience. I'm talking in such a positive light, but once I finish writing this narrative, I'm going back to my book and thinking, "What if no one likes this? What if this is a waste of my time?" It probably is, and that's okay. I'm trying to learn to enjoy writing and not think about what others have to say while taking in constructive criticism.

My word to you, mainly young writers, is. You will get critiques, whether you ask for them or not. You post publically; some are good, and some are so hard to hear. but you need it. It sounds mean right now, but it's the darn truth. (First time me not cussing in my writing, trying to keep it kid-friendly.) Anyway, take constructive criticism and use it however you will. Maybe use it to help your friends. I don't know how to use a semicolon or a comma, even though I've learned it my whole life. I'm still learning, and I'm straying from the topic again. Having self-awareness is like having a superpower, but don't go overboard and dig yourself a grave with it. It's all about finding that sweet spot between knowing yourself and not becoming your own worst enemy. So, keep that self-awareness in check and use it wisely.

While I can't say much since I'm still learning, positive motivation is helpful, and it's comforting to know that others struggle with accepting criticism. I'm in high school, and I'm struggling with it. Even grownups suffer with it. It's difficult, but it gets better.

Please read this and offer me validation/jk. And I hope you enjoyed reading it, as I now have a topic to write about, and I get really happy when I get comments. (I need things to write about.)

Authors note again: writing a book is exhausting, i think I have so many plot holes and it's like draft 1.5... UGHHHH