With that said, if there is a general suggestion that we post, it's just that--a general announcement we make on YWS so people can know one thing or another and be wiser for the experience. We're not trying to humiliate or backstab anybody. If you're the person at fault, trust me, we'll give you a PM. If you haven't gotten a PM, then that's a good sign.
Another thing... please don't ask any of the moderating staff about any of the particulars, especially names and details. Like I said, it's generally humiliating enough for the member(s) at fault, and we really don't want to be humiliating the members more than necessary.
That still applies, even if you think your friend is the one is in trouble. If you're concerned that a friend might be the one at fault, then ask the friend what happened, not us. This, of course, means that you really can't know both sides of the issue, but we do this out of respect our member's privacy. After all, members always come first.
