Peach and Mango Updates and OOC Discussion.

Just what do you mean by“Dear you need to be more mature or else you will never be able to understand life.”?

This was in context of your comment that I put in quotes in that PM. I did try to explain my point further with below lines.
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From where or who told you that to make others happy you got to brainwash them like aliens? Dear this sounds so childish? Tell me a living example of this scenario. If that were the case some perfect writer in the world would have just written something on some piece of paper and send to Russia's President to brain wash him so that the current war could be stopped. This doesn't make any sense at all.
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Again and again asking ways to make every single one happy (that too like brainwashing them??) is what's immature. It's very kind of you to think about happiness of others but at the same time hurting your mental health by seeking something too unrealistic is not good. Unrealistic because I have already told you that it's simply impossible to make everyone happy with your work and I tried to cite so many examples. (Dan Brown, JK Rowling, Naomi Osaka). In your first post of your RP also you mentioned that you wanted to fix your sub conscious but then again in that very same post you tried to loath and blame yourself for your failures. You could have chosen to skip the negative and yet you went for it. You will again ask the same thing about how to remove this negativity but the bottom line is it's in your hand. Nobody forced you to write those out. It's natural to sometimes breakdown and write about the the negative things going in your life. But only to take the burden out of your chest. If you give more limelight to them, it's like adding fuel to fire.

Being mature and understanding the meaning of life is that you have to realize this truth that everyone is fighting a battle in their personal lives. If I will go on making a list of my failures you will think that I'm a bigger loser based on how you have been interpreting yourself. I too am a big procrastinator, I fail to achieve the simplest targets in my daily tasks. People have treated me horribly. I too feel bad and negative and have to fight huge battle of self-conflicts. I even fail to gather strength to write a full post for YWS describing my anxiety. Even at this moment of typing this post I'm checking if my Psychologist is available online or not bcos I've been feeling depressed and lost again. There was a time when I also used to criticise and blame myself all the time, but it just proved out to be even worse for my mental health. Now I have spend tremendous energy in avoiding such hate speeches for myself, that doesn't mean that I've become a successful person now, but atleast I have stopped adding fuel to my inner-fire that was causing me harm.

kumar is right. We all have our crosses to bear and our own personal demons running amuck. It takes maturity for stepping back and learning to accept that the person is not alone and each has their own difficult situation they have to deal with. It also takes maturity not broadcasting personal stuff that involves mental illness, and in veritably expect sympathy and praises because you yourself are having troubles. Maturity is accepting the cards dealt to you. I said once I’ll say it again: I’ve been diagnosed with PTSD, clinical depression, OCD, ASD. My world can be very bleak but I work through it with professional help, so stop whining and asking everyone on here to do everything for you. Also, please stop repeating and telling us how much your life stinks because we’re not interested. Thank you.