Not really, I only found out after my relationship with Jace, and it was because I felt as if I needed extra validation because apparently I'm a stalker, I'm clingy, and I don't respect others' privacy. The only part of that that's remotely true is that I'm slightly clingy.
By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return. — Genesis 3:19