Chapter of Achievement

A new chapter in life where everything calls for achievement. But my entire life changed when I entered this critical stage in life where everything should be systematic. Every child that comes from their mother’s womb achieving adolescence, and become an adult one. Teenage life is a chapter of our life where we teens should be ready in everything we do. There’s a lot of thing to define the teenage life now. A things that particularly not the same on the previous years. According to Pickhardt (Adolescence and the Marketplace Influence, 2013 p.1), teenagers considered the center of life that everything goes on that stage. It is the time of both disorientation and discovery. Every distraction that happens during teenage years is for us to be prepared for the future life. in others words teenagers distract in personal, interpersonal, and physiological.

The one of the distraction of the teenagers is on personal that ruin their life. and it affect their way of living. When we figure out the role of everything in our lives. We can found out the positive and the negative things that can affect on us. This makes us learn to do whatever we want. But in other people see it a negative one. But as a teenager now we can decide and choose our own way of accomplishing everything. But it also affects our relationship to our parents because they saw it as a negative one. That results of mistrust. The term is usually applied when they are feeling frustrated, impatient, or critical with the teenager, which only makes insulting injury from this name-calling harder to bear.

-Pickhardt (When Parents Call Their Adolescent "Lazy", 2013 p. 1). The problem here is that it’s not just the aggrieved parent who is making this comparison.

The next one is distraction in interpersonal.A teenager now drives their own lives. As the time past we can’t imagine what is the idea that comes to the mind of the teenagers. The most interpersonal distraction is because of friends. It is the time that you learn the different extraordinary things that your parents didn't taught to you. As a teenager it is fun. But the problem is it catches up all the attentions and time that affect for the activity or things that you need to do.

The last one is the physiological distraction.Most of the teenagers now involves in the girl and boy relationships. That ends up in some mistakes and faults. We will also have a thousand and one questions as we enter this new stage of life. This is the time when we actually need the guidance and support of our parents and older people. And a wide knowledge of understandings to realize what is right and wrong before you do something so that you can’t ends up to unwanted results. “about the only real freedom I have now is dealing with any troubles I get myself into.”