I grew up thinking the world was going to end.
Yes, of course, the world is going to end, eventually. But, I grew up thinking the world would end in my lifetime: that I wouldn't make it past the age of thirteen because the world was ending, and it was ending soon.
This idea never really upset me. There's never much use for worrying about the things you have no control over. I thought, at least, I wouldn't need to worry about high school since I wouldn't make it that far. I wouldn't ever need to worry about which college to pick, which jobs to take, or which person to settle with because I wouldn't ever make it that far.
I grew up in a very religious household. My mind holds more knowledge on the book of Revelation than you would probably believe. I needed to keep my heart right because the world was ending, and it was ending soon. And I wanted to make sure that when it went, we'd all still be together.
So, it was weird for me when I went through middle school and the world didn't end. I graduated high school, and the world didn't end. Afterward, I applied to college, got in, and attended that very fall, and the world still didn't end. Life often feels surreal, even through the mundane, repetitives of every day, because I never thought I would still be here.
As it turns out, I had it all wrong. The world isn't going to end in divine fire. And if it is fire, I'm more inclined to believe it'll be from our sun when it finally goes supernova, which we still have billions of more years before that happens.
Now I think, the world is always ending, but it's never the end of the world.
The world ended in 2008 when we had to move to a smaller house. It ended in middle school when my friend told my crush I liked him. It ended when my older brother left us to go to college out of state. It ended again after my first boyfriend broke up with me. And most recently, the world ended last November, when my dad died.
And that last one has been harder because it's the most different than the others. The rest of them were supposed to happen. I was meant to move, to feel embarrassed, to watch my siblings grow up, to have my heart broken. I don't feel like I was meant to live in a world without my dad.
I am not meant to walk down the aisle in May with my older brother. It was supposed to be my dad. And I scheduled my wedding two days after my little sister's graduation so that our extended family will be there for her, but that's not the way it was meant to be. I'm not supposed to be the one sitting in the passenger seat of the car as my little brother practices driving with his permit.
So the world has ended, once again. But it's not the end of the world, even though it really feels like it is.
Because I'm still going to get married. My brother will still walk me down the aisle. My little sister will still graduate. My little brother will still practice with his permit.
Even if my dad can't be there for any of it. Even though that hurts, it hurts just for now.
Life starts, and most tragically it ends, but for most of the time it's continuing, it's ongoing.
The world never really ends.
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