The sun rises. My phone's obnoxious
ringtone blares out. I worry it might wake some people even though
it never does. I get up and go pee for about a minute straight. I
then wander around and see if anyone else is up, even though they
never are. Empty bottles, paper towels, lighters, and other various
props lay all on the ground. I pick some up. Since I'm always the
first to leave I always try to clean a little. I am somewhat
surprised by who ends up sleeping together. I never get laid. My
date always leaves. I feel like shit and am just ready to get to my
own bed. I walk towards my truck, picking up a graham cracker box
and a couple Hershey bar wrappers on my way. I pull out my contact
case and put it on the back of the truck. I sloppily open it and put
in my contacts while getting soultion all over me in the process. I
dump the rest of the solution on the ground, close the contact case,
and toss it in the truck. I'm so ready to get home. I switch my low
battery phone to my music app and queue up a couple of songs; enough
to make it home on. I struggle pulling out of the driveway, worried
I'll get stuck in some mud or hit a tree. The ride home is cold, the
heat hasn't quite got going yet and the feeling of the seat on my
back gives me chills. My drive home always starts the same way:
thinking about how happy I am to get to my own bed. But about 4
minutes in, when the car warms and the second song hits the chorus,
I'll smile. I'll think back on little moments with my self from the
night. The excitement of a dark stumble towards the fire after a
piss. The feeling of satisfaction after I raise up off the girl I
was making out with. The loneliness of laying down to sleep. Then
the harsh smack of reality when my alarm clock goes off the next
morning. When I start to think back, I'll start to sing to the
chorus with a grin on my face that is as genuine as any I've ever
had. Little parts from the night fly at me and I grab them with
enthusiasm. Kissing, cussing, dancing, drinking. We may have been
wasting time, but we were young. We were at a point where freedom
came rarely. When we got a little bit of freedom instead of using it
wisely, we'd do things like cuss, smoke, drink, and fuck. It was
like giving a big middle finger to the people who refuted our freedom
to begin with. By the time I get to my house I'm almost upset. The
drive became so euphoric. Having the discomfort of being dirty,
lacking sleep, and thirsty yet still being happy wasn't common.
Returning home meant going back to my boring day to day routine.
Leaving the dirty, trashy place to return to my bed meant leaving a
lot of good memories there too. I reluctantly walk in the house,
grab a bottle of water, chug the whole thing, get a stomach ache, and
curl up in bed with another full bottle of water. Even though I
removed my clothes, I still smell the bonfire and the memories flow
in like a river as I drift off to sleep.
If someone asked me to sum up my youth
in one moment, it'd be that drive home with my truck's cold seat
against my back. My hair is a mess and I'm covered in contact
solution. I have a huge grin on my face and am singing along to the
songs I'm playing through my phone that has barely any life. I think
everyone needs a drive home early in the morning like that every once
in a while. They're under-appreciated. We need to miss our beds
when we're 10 minutes away from them, at a person's house whom we
barely know. It's much better than missing a person's house whom you
barely know, while lying in your own bed. We need the memories that
aren't easily remember because those are the best ones. They're back
in the vault of your brain and it takes a certain key to get them
out. The smell of a bonfire on your favorite leather jacket, the
feeling of sinking a redemption shot in beer pong, the sound of a
drunken choir of middle class white teens singing over a gangster rap
song. These are the key to that vault of forgotten memories.
They're the ones that won't make it in your stories you'll tell
people years down the road, or the ones you'll reminisce about at you
high school reunion. They're unspoken and personal. They're the
ones that you think about on that drive home, even though you know
you may never think of them after that. A drive home on a morning
like that isn't just a drive home, it's a goodbye. A farewell to the
memories that may not make it.
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