"What these women teach our women who are already divorced?"
"Why all these Morning Show hosts are divorced?"
"How these women ride fighter planes when get scared of a thunder storm?"
"Girls should not be elegant as in uniform"
These are common questions raised by men in all societies, it is not only limited to a particular society. It comes into a behavioural disease in men, Misogyny.
Misogyny is a psychotic disorder in men highly inspired by hate for woman, this hate begins from hurting emotionally, mentally and physically. It may be making severe fun of to resulting to her death.
Misogyny comes from Misogunia, Greek word which means "women haters", this term was used for gays. Well being GBT (Gays Bisexual Transgender) is another psychotic disorder in man, the attraction of man in another man.
I read a saying of sociology scientist (scientist of society) Allan G. Johnson, according to him "Misogyny is a cultural attitude of hatred for females because they are females".
To me it is more a psychotic disease than the culture as psychology makes the culture and culture re-makes the psychology though culture contain this impact but all our thoughts are impacted by our behaviours and manners which forms the society.
The matter of discussion is the misogynists. They consider treating women harshly as symbol of their pride and honour, all the women or most of them. Before going into further details I would love to mention a clause of religion Islam which my Islamic Studies teacher Mam Nargis Tariq had taught once in First Year of College, she said "woman was created from the bone of man near heart, so she is meant to be treated softly, politely otherwise force applied will break her as bones are broken.
Misogyny is all about hate, jealousy, discrimination and violence against the beautiful creature of God Almighty.
This hatred disease takes hold in all ancient and growing human societies, from the orthodox Asia to the modern West. Let us see certain examples of Misogyny in our society. When passengers come to know that their flight is about to be ridden by a female aviator, they begin to panic and confusion is observed while some scums make fun of them by making insulting remarks upon them, both in East and West. I have a question, why these misogynists always doubt female ridden flights? None of the woman aviator ever came across with a plane crash, all of them were men. Here I remember a private Mashaq crash in Model Town Lahore near CM House in 2011. A female instructor was riding the plane and it got crashed due to engine failure, the CCPO put the whole responsibility on the instructor by saying "because she was a woman". All the previous air crashes in history were not done by women, all of them were men. Well they can say all those pilots or Captains were given birth by women!
Another tremendous precedent of misogyny in our society is the dressing of women. In past there was a fashion of short shirts so girls preferred short shirts so every good and black put fatwa on this fashion by determining it indelicate or vice. It is also disordered psychology of man to criticize new dress of his wife. Now it's fashion of long and very long shirts, you know what long and very long shirts are also issued fatwas by claiming it extra use of cloth which is not religious. I am put this fatwa so that is why sharing it and I am put this fatwa for several times. Shorts shirts are not acceptable, long shirts are not acceptable.Are you really thinking of something in the midst of short and long? They even do not like this, fatwa is again put why didn't you sew long? That is pure events of Misogyny. Misogynistic approach won't be ending.
Men also order their women not to wear tight shirts, rather loose but loose traditional frocks and shirts are common so they are ordered to wear less loose clothes, I have these experiences! As it is wastage of fabric and wealth, Fatwa!.
I seriously do not know what should I name this approach, everything is wrong, not acceptable. Long, short and normal lenghted shirts all are put fatwas, loose and tight shirts are issued FIR. What I have concluded, misogynists will hate everything in which a woman looks adorable, pleasant and feels happy.
Islamic Ideological Council even declared womem garments harram having flowers and colours printed, now this Council in the hatred of woman has put clauses to parliament to take back the Qur'anic right of "Khula' " or divorce from her. Does all it make little sense?
If embroidery and colourful garments are not for girls then please bring them to our beloved misogynists! They will look gorgeous. By the way I had seen a male model wearing red, pink and yellow dress having multi colour flower broach on front.
By the way another interesting fact is if a girl carries dupatta she is asked to have chadder, then she is asked to wear abbaya and if she wears Niqab, she is put fatwa of "Kia Malum Niqab Kar Ke Kahan Jati He"
O Dear Misogynists!
I love to wear beautiful chadders.
And all these so called fatwas are nothing to do with our religion!
Coming to job thing!
I remember in 2006 when first batch of Pakistan Air Force's lady pilots was being trained, I read an article in Sunday Mag about the I'll health of women to ride a plane giving ill scientific and even religious logics. Even that misogynist writer must be knowing the role of Muslim women in wars.
Few days back I heard girls must not join military as all the young officers keep on starring them. What some young officers, all the bad men stare at girls in college, university, office etc doesn't mean girls should not touch their dreams and goals. I also heard girls shouldn't be in military even as doctors and nurses. Very nice, all the girls should definitely resign as they are diverting the concentration of our young officers. Military's medical core girls! write your resignations and yes Dear Officers then please appoint other young male officers for the check ups of your wives because our girls are diverting you.