Interesting article. I think some people are more isolators than connectors based on their personality and temper, or maybe because of things that might have happened in their past. People might withdraw when confronted with a traumatic event or they might be raised in a certain way that discourages them to make connections.
I like your analogy of extroverts being like oxygen and introverts like gold. "There are two types of people: one who is like oxygen, they react with every element they find and one is like gold, they don’t react at all".
I completely forgot gold is an isolator. It's a smart analogy. And while I think isolators might need help from connectors to reach out, like you said, I also think they have merit in reaching out, for wanting to socialize more, to get out of their self-inflicted bubble of fright or mistrust, and make friends.
I like how you talked about isolators and connectors working together. Personally, I would choose more time for isolation, but that's just me wanting more time to listen to music unbothered.
"You know what Isolation is good for but only for 20 - 30 minutes a day and that too in the morning, so that you can make peace with your mind. The 20 minutes of isolation every day connects with yourself. That's how they work together!"
While I agree with the rules, "You should greet people with full enthusiasm, greet them with a bright face and say “Hi” to show them that you are happy to see them
Look at your expression. You should not greet people with your sad or lazy face.
If you get into an argument, and if you are at the wrong place then accept it and move on. Believe nothing good is gonna happen with you if you keep dwelling into the problem.
Try to surround yourself with right , wise and good people.
Maintain trust . trust is something which is most important in any relationship.
Give a smile. Give a smile to a lonely person. Give a smile to your parents, give a smile to people you love. Give a smile to a stranger walking on the street.
Try to be a good listener. When you will listen to the person . they will think that you truly care about them . you should add your own points too", sometimes these tactics don't work completely because we could be in a very bad mood ourselves, based on losing a loved one or failing an exam, and then it is understandable if we don't act nice or involved.
Trust is important as you said, it is also easy to lose and hard to regain, so we should be careful who we put our trust in, but at the same time we should not become lonely or scared of the possibility to trust other people. I think there should be a balance.
Anyway, I think your article is well-written, clever, informative, and there is good advice in it, well done.
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