Okay! So... um... I have five kids (the youngest one is nine months old) so I am just going to bug you on developmental stuff. XD
Her grandmother showered her first grandchild with gifts and presents and everything she would need for the next few months. Everything was there for her. She had everything she, a toddler, could ever want.
Toddlers are called toddlers because they kind of have this weird toddling, unsteady walk. It's adorable. But you're using the words "she would need for the next few months." Which kind of indicates that you are describing an infant, not a toddler. Anyway, infants mostly want to hang out with Mom all day long. So like... presents are not as important as presence to an infant. An infant has very basic desires!
Once they had made their space in that community, she started noticing her mother's stomach start to get bigger and bigger. She asked her mother once, "Why do you eat so much?"
I would use belly, not stomach. Though like... maybe it's both if she eats that much, haha. (I actually eat LESS when I am pregnant than normal?? Because diabetes sucks...)
Her mother laughed and hugged her, telling her there was a surprise.
OKAY. So. That's actually a terrible parenting approach, lol. Four years old is DEFINITELY old enough to tell the kid that there's a new baby on the way, especially if the kid is directly asking you about why your body is changing! In fact, you sort of need to tell them so you can help them out with the big life changes that are coming, since even dealing with their mother's pregnancy can be a bit traumatic to the little ones if you don't let them know that this is a temporary thing and that Mommy still loves them, etc.
Mind you! When they are four years old (I have a four-year-old now!) they are still trying to wrap their mind about pregnancy and babies and things are a bit confusing. Also, they'll forget everything you tell them and you'll have to remind them constantly, haha. But you do have to mentally prepare them!
NOW. If she were two, I would be like, "Yeah, whatever, she is about to get the shock of her life, lol." Like, I have a two-year-old as well, and even though we tried our best to prepare all the kids, including the two-year-old, being two is just... they have a tough time getting that concept that pregnancy means a new baby. But four-years-old is definitely old enough!
She hated surprises. The wait, the suspense, it was too much for her, so she asked her mother every day about it. Bugged her mother 'till she was yelled at and told to go up to her room.
SEE? This is why you shouldn't keep it a secret! This mother is dumb... punishing her child for her natural curiosity and not sharing important news. Seriously. And where is the dad in this? Do they not talk to each other about the baby at all? I don't get it...
She didn't like it, so that day, she walked out of the house through the back door, and like the toddler she was, got distracted and started chasing one of the cats she had noticed crossing the cross walk.
And within a minute, everything went pitch black.
Having lived in downtown in a large city before, I can assure you that I did everything I could to prevent my children from wandering off like this... because CARS AND CHILDREN TERRIFY ME.
Anyway, I am assuming that she was struck down by a car? Or maybe she had a seizure unexpectedly???
WHAT IS GOING ON?????
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