Love, I feel like people don't get it. Many girls dream of falling in love with some guy. They will pretty much fall into the trap of whoever is after them. I feel like they don't take the time to get to know the person before 'dating them'
It is kind of ridiculous if you think about it. They put no thoughts, no feelings into their relationships and if they do, most of them are fake or forced. I wonder why they do this, why they think it is ok. Do they have any idea they are doing it?
Love should be a special once in a lifetime kind of thing, I feel like it should be earned not chased after or abused. I guess you could say that these thoughts are pointless, that is if you have fallen into the trap of fake feelings.
I guess you could call these fake feelings something other than love, something other than attraction. I would call them a greedy need. So many people have the desire, the want, the self-pity even. They want attention, they want to be noticed.
If people didn't set high standards, if the world didn't, i feel like this sort of thing may not happen, kids are almost forced to grow up once they reach their teenage years. They are ready to be adults and they waste their childhood with fake feelings, wasted time, and lots of forced feelings.
Life shouldn't be all about love. I feel like life is too short not to have lots of fond and happy memories. People are all too worried about everything if you think about it. Getting the newest clothes, going to the grandest place. In a few years that won't matter. What you were wearing or where you were will just be a secondary thing, what you will remember is who you were with and how you spent your time. I know these are just a lot of random thoughts but, think about it. I am sure thqt all of my thoughts, or most of them at least are right. What do you think?
-Anne Throckmorton 2016