"Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart."
-Kahlil Gibran
Beauty is an
illusion, a façade. It is a false impression imposed into our
minds by our society.
What do you mean
by beauty?
According to
Oxford dictionary, it means-
Combination of
qualities that delights the senses
or an attractive
feature or an advantage.
But we have our
own rendition of beauty and people who we consider beautiful.
According to us,
it means that someone who is pleasant to look at, or someone with the
perfect looks in addition to a perfect figure.
WRONG.
This, is what we
perceive beauty as, because this is what we’ve been taught by
the society and its mediums.
But what we
really should have been taught is this-
Beauty refers to
the inner qualities possessed by each and every person. These are the
qualities which makes a person beautiful. Beauty means women. And all
women are beautiful.
You may be white
black, brown or yellow, it doesn’t matter. You all are
beautiful. Yes, every single one of you, no matter which religion,
caste, region or ethnicity you belong to.
You don’t
have to be fair skinned to look good. You are beautiful just the way
you are, and you don’t require any boys of face creams to tell
you that.
We all live in a
world where this concept of beauty is miserably distorted. Media
especially is the main culprit. It has created a misconception and
put us under a false impression that beautiful women are those who
are tall, pretty and fair-skinned, with a good complexion and a good
body in addition to all this.
And when we look
at these “beautiful women” we crave to be like them. And
in a desperate attempt to fulfill our desires we blindly follow what
we’re shown and unknowingly we are lured into a vicious trap.
No amount of fairness creams can make you fair. It is just a gimmick
and in the end we are all fools to believe in it.
Remember guys
that beneath these ounces and ounces of make-up and plastic surgery
lies a woman just like you and me- Face covered with pimples, frizzy
hair and a dis-proportionate body.
Nobody is
perfect. Not them, not you, not me. We need to learn to accept these
faults and imperfections, Accept them with open arms and embrace it,
Accept the real you.
The society has
made it a sin to be fat.
When we come
across a fat person walking on the road, or in our school we sneer,
laugh at them and pass comments to our friends. We all have done it
at least once, including me. We don’t bother about the feelings
of that person, or what turbulence he or she must be going through.
So what if you
are fat? It doesn’t make you any less beautiful. It finally
depends upon your inner self and how beautiful you are from within.
You may be extremely good looking but what is the whole point if you
have a heart that is made of steel?
Outer beauty is
superficial. It can at times give us a false image. It is the inner
beauty that persists.
God has bestowed
each of us with features unique to us. So what if you’re too
fat or too skinny? Too tall or too short? You are still
beautiful and nobody in this world has the right to deny you this
fact. It’s not only a good figure, but also what lies beneath
it that is the real deal. That is what makes you beautiful.
So when you wake
up in the morning, don’t forget to look in the mirror and smile
at yourself. It is by doing these small things that we can change our
perception of beauty for good.
To end with, here
is a quote by Marilyn Monroe-
“To all
the girls who think you are ugly because you’re not a size 0,
you’re the beautiful one. It’s the society who’s
ugly
.”
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