Young Writers Society

Ehhh, I don't get why sexuality needs to be described so deeply. If it's just a passing moment in a scene that's not really described in deep detail I can read it fine. I just don't get why some people tend to get really, really into it. It bothers me because it's almost as bad as watching porn; except you're picturing it in your head instead of watching it. And neither is really appealing, to be honest.

But that's irrelevant, of course; if stories on here are rated R for language or gore, then it should come as no surprise that sex should also be rated R.

I am glad that this question was asks, because i was thinking on how far i should make my main character go or not.

I think sex is absoloutely necessary in some cases, for some stories. Especially for character development; sometimes you dont know a person until you're in that situation. As a person of a tender age and disposition, i dont find anything I've read so far on this site as anything that would or could mentally scar me.
SO I think your concern, though well placed, is not that big of a deal. Slap an R-rating on it and everything will be ok.