I've thought about that before, too. Who decided they were "bad" words? That's what frustrates me, because I'm not allowed to say words that simply express emotion or punctuation.
BS.. I happen to agree with you when used on a day-to-day basis, but in writing, often times it makes sense to have a character say something that doesn't sound entirely intelligent (need I quote Song of Ice and Fire? even though that was a bit more of a guy who was extrememly fusturated, and a few other.. overly friendly references).
And Crysi, want any help there?
As to darn vs. damn, it's considered polite, and I find it laughable that darn is "socially acceptable" (so in my case my parents allow darn but not damn), while it means the same thing as damn. I guess someone along the line decided that it just was too vulgar to use, so of course people still use it, and others are horrified someone uses it. Moving along, I think that its not the word itself that someone might object to, but the intent the person saying it has. Yes, there are other ways of expressing yourself, but the intent is still the same, it just sounds more flowery.
Just me, though.
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My mind is going to get extremely twisted up in this area.
In my mind, it is not the actually word that is wrong, but the thought behind it. Therefore, if you mean "d*mn", but say "darn", then it's just as bad.
And yet, if someone uses the word "damn", but it's just another word to them, having the same thought behind it as "skittles" or "pepper shakers" or "snickerdoodle" (all words I have been known to say when I'm angry or frustrated or upset), then it's only bad because of what arises in the minds of those who hear it.
So for my own personal standards, these are the rules that I have laid down for myself:
1) avoid the use of the words like d*mn, sh*t, etc.
2) use darn, shoot, and other such word sparingly
and 3) if you can make the situation lighter for yourself and others by saying random words like "snickerdoodle", then do so.
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