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Over 13: The AIM Tango

Lee · 2004-11-15T16:29:06Z

NOTE: This story contains language that some parents may find unsuitable for their children. That said, all children under the age of 13 should seek permission before reading this story. - The Admin Lisa6534: ok, here it goes, i'm going to try and explain myself before I go out on this run Auto response from SAMSONITE73: class Lisa6534 returned at 5:55:15 PM. Lisa6534: I know that Ed said that we need to decide if we want to try and work this out, and then try and get past it Lisa6534: but honestly darlin, Ed is a guy, and he's not the world expert on things like this as far as I know Lisa6534: yes, we did need to decide how we wanted to go about this, work it out or break up Lisa6534: but who is he to say how and when we should try to get past it? Lisa6534: Right now I still am very hurt, and very angry Lisa6534: and as far as wanting to know the details, I understand whre you are coming from Lisa6534: with the not wanting to know Lisa6534: but I do, and maybe it's a girl thing Lisa6534: but with every different situation taht could have occured, there are a different set of feelings that would come along with it Lisa6534: so right now, i'm still trying to figure out what i think and how i feel about all of this Lisa6534: i still haven't gotten out of you if you kissed her back or not, otehr than saying by not pushing her away right away you guess you were kissing her back Lisa6534: i mean, kissing someone can be an emotional thing, feelings can be involved, and i'm trying to figure out what kind of feelings were involoved Lisa6534: because, unlike me--i've kissed a ton of people, i'll be the first to admit that sometimes it's just kissing and that's it--you don't just kiss people Matt Lisa6534: so if you kissed her back, that's a big deal to me, and how long you kissed her for, anohter big deal for me Lisa6534: and i'm sorry, i really am, i've tried not to want to know Lisa6534: and i'm not asking you to paint me a perfect picture, because i realize you can't remember everything, but even if you think that it is worthless Lisa6534: is it that hard just to go ahead and ask her anyway, and try and find out for me, when I told you that I needed this? Lisa6534: you're making me feel like i'm the reason that we're having problems Lisa6534: and i'm the reason why things aren't the way they should be between the two of us Lisa6534: and that i'm the one who is to blame here Lisa6534: because I won't TRY hard enough Lisa6534: and because I dont' WANT it enough Lisa6534: and it's so hard for me to keep reminding myself that i'm the one who was hurt here Lisa6534: not you, not her Lisa6534: me Lisa6534: and this whole thing, you and I working this out, before we can get past this and put it behind us Lisa6534: should be about making me feel better Lisa6534: and I think, in this situation, Ed is more concerned for you than he is for me Lisa6534: and his view is going to be one which will make things easiest fo ryou Lisa6534: and i'm not saying you should just sit there and take it when I yell Lisa6534: because I don't want to yell anymore Lisa6534: and i WANT to be past this, there is nothing else in the world I want mroe than to be past all of this, and have things they way they used to be Lisa6534: and you keep saying that i want to break up with you because i keep saying it Lisa6534: and it's not that i want to break up iwth you Lisa6534: it's that i feel that if I can't try hard enough for you Lisa6534: and i don't want it as much as you Lisa6534: then maybe you would be better off without me Lisa6534: and better off with someone who would try as hard as you wanted her to Lisa6534: and who made you feel like she was willing to work as hard as you needed her to, because if you don't feel like what I'm doing is good enough Lisa6534: then you aren't going to be happy Lisa6534: you say you want me to tell you what i'm thinking or what i'm feeling Lisa6534: but when i do, it upsets you, and so i do'nt knwo what to do Lisa6534: all i can think of is to just sit down and shut up and act like everything is the way it was before, because doing that is the only way that I would be trying any harder than I already am, but that wouldn't be honest, and I didn't think you wanted that Lisa6534: but if that's what you want matt, i'll do it, i really really will, and i'm not being sarcastic Lisa6534: tell me what to do and i'll do it Auto response from SAMSONITE73: class Lisa6534: because it seems to me that you think you're the one who is being hurt here Lisa6534: rather than me Lisa6534: and maybe you're right Lisa6534: so i'm sory that i've been difficult, and i will try to get past this, i won't ask you any more questions, and i'll stop going ballistic over things Lisa6534: and you can tell Cristina that she is in the clear, I will not say anything to her ever Lisa6534: she's off my buddy list Lisa6534 is away at 6:15:56 PM. Lisa6534: there is not one bit of sarcasm in this im at all, i swear, please don't be upset, i just want you to understand that i am trying, and am willing to do whatever you need it is for me to do to make this better Lisa6534 returned at 6:18:08 PM. Lisa6534: because i guess i'm just not working at this as hard as you are, and that's not fair to you Lisa6534: cause you have other stuff going on, and i'm just making your life more miserable by wallowing in the past the way that I am Lisa6534: I guess I just wanted to know what happend so I could try and judge how much I could still trust you Lisa6534 is away at 6:20:41 PM. Lisa6534 returned at 7:14:36 PM. Lisa6534: the flowers just got here darlin Auto response from SAMSONITE73: class Lisa6534: thank you so much, they are gorgeous! Lisa6534: although Jessie just broke one of our vases the other day...so we had a hell of a time trying to find enough things to put them in..that's one hell of a lot of flowers! Lisa6534: I have some in my room Lisa6534: some in the kitchen.... Lisa6534: some on the mantel Lisa6534: I do feel bad accepting them though, since you aren't exactly happy with me at the moment Lisa6534: but thank you very much, i love them Lisa6534 is away at 7:17:35 PM. Lisa6534 returned at 7:53:32 PM. Lisa6534 signed off at 7:53:37 PM. Lisa6534 signed on at 7:54:52 PM. Lisa6534 is away at 7:55:21 PM. SAMSONITE73: you there? Auto response from Lisa6534: American Idol....leave a message or gimme a call Lisa6534: yeah Lisa6534 returned at 7:57:48 PM. Lisa6534: but i can't take anohter crying session, i'm exhausted SAMSONITE73: i'm really sorry, i just overreacted, it's just been another bad day SAMSONITE73: and i just jumped at you SAMSONITE73: this isnt your fault at all Lisa6534: no, really matt, if you think i'm not trying, please, tell me what to do to show you that i'm trying Lisa6534: i was operating under the assumption that you were the one who had things to prove, but maybe i'm just being slefish Lisa6534: I thought I was entitled to be Lisa6534: and i guess that was wrong SAMSONITE73: all i'm trying to say Lisa6534: and i'm sorry SAMSONITE73: is letting me prove things to you is different than being selfish Lisa6534: i am being selfish because i am not just letting you matt, I NEED you to prove this to me SAMSONITE73: i know that SAMSONITE73: needing you to prove ti to me SAMSONITE73: is different than being selfish SAMSONITE73: in either sentence i used, that was my point, not the letting part Lisa6534: i need to prove something to you? SAMSONITE73: no Lisa6534: that's what you just said SAMSONITE73: i know SAMSONITE73: i just messed up SAMSONITE73: sorry SAMSONITE73: i didnt mean to type it that way SAMSONITE73: i meant me proving it to you SAMSONITE73: sorry SAMSONITE73: but it's still different Lisa6534: I guess, in a way, I was looking at your willingness to try and help me with this, as anohter way for you to prove to me that you are willnig to work at this SAMSONITE73: well okay, and i'm trying to help Lisa6534: I know it wouldn't be something plesant to do, and she probably wouldn't be a fan of it Lisa6534: but i honestly don't care what she wants SAMSONITE73: but darlin here's the thing, it didn't mean anything Lisa6534: or how hurt she is by this whole thing SAMSONITE73: we've been over this Lisa6534: and forgive me for not believing you SAMSONITE73: ive told her i dont like her, that i love you, and that this cannot and will not happen ever again Lisa6534: along with appologizing to her for it happening saying you are sorry....you said you said you were sorry Lisa6534: that's what i don't get SAMSONITE73: but you're not gonna believe me even if i did go and talk to her, so what exactly is the difference? Lisa6534: why you appologized to her Lisa6534: because i want to know that she said she won't do it again, i want to know that she understands, and i want to know why she did it SAMSONITE73: because i fucked up to by allowing it, i just dont see what part of that you don't understand Lisa6534: she should be appologizing to you for doing it Lisa6534: what part of that don't you understand? SAMSONITE73: well i figure that you'd know me well enough to know that i accept blame even when it's not totally my fault SAMSONITE73: even if it's not my fault at all SAMSONITE73: if i wasnt the solution, then i was part of hte problem Lisa6534: this is going no where, I can't do this on IM Lisa6534: I'm gonna go watch tv SAMSONITE73: you can't do what? Lisa6534: discuss this in circles over and over and over again Lisa6534: I feel so helpless and out of control Lisa6534: that's why I'm not eating Lisa6534: that's why I went for a run today SAMSONITE73: but there's nothing i cna do about it Lisa6534: I need to control something SAMSONITE73: and i cant help it that you're not eating Lisa6534: i knwo you can't SAMSONITE73: or wanting to run Lisa6534: i'm just saying Lisa6534: this is stressing me out, this talking ourselves in circles Lisa6534: cause you've said all this before SAMSONITE73: and all i'm saying is that you're trying to control a situation Lisa6534: and i know what you're saying, and you act as if I am not paying attention SAMSONITE73: that was completely and utterly out of your control SAMSONITE73: no, i don't you act like i'm not paying attention, it's a two-sided street Lisa6534: but i don't think you are taking what i have to say to heart Lisa6534: because if you were, you'd have talked to her, or at least tried to Lisa6534: rather than trying to convince me that it's pointless Lisa6534: because you don't want to do it SAMSONITE73: i don't think you're taking what i say into account either Lisa6534: which is fine Lisa6534: don't do it Lisa6534: it is pointless SAMSONITE73: well all i'm saying is that Lisa6534: but really i want to go now because i'm getting upset again Lisa6534: and i just showered, so I dont' want to go run again SAMSONITE73: if i went and talked to her you wouldnt believe it anyway Lisa6534: fine matt, i wouldn't believe it SAMSONITE73: okay, i guess i'll talk to you later then Lisa6534: don't do it SAMSONITE73: you don't believe i love you Lisa6534: do'nt do anything SAMSONITE73: you just told me "forgive me if i dont believe you" Lisa6534: this will work itself out somehow SAMSONITE73: i see Lisa6534: I just have to expect less, and work harder, and get over myself Lisa6534: and listen to you Lisa6534: and then things can go back to how they were SAMSONITE73: no you don't have to expect less SAMSONITE73: and don't patronize me Lisa6534: yes I do, honestly the way you've made me feel through out this whole thing, is that I haven't worked hard enough, and i don't want it enough, and basically that things aren't all better because it's my fault Lisa6534: and i'm not doing what i should Lisa6534: this has comepletely and totally been turned on me matt, even if you didn't mean to do it intentionally SAMSONITE73: that's not what i'm saying Lisa6534: because I feel like i am working SAMSONITE73: at all SAMSONITE73: and i have not Lisa6534: i am physically and mentally exhausted from working so hard Lisa6534: and all i've gotten from you to show that you are sorry and it wont' happen again has been a lot of appologies and flowers Lisa6534: which were beautiful SAMSONITE73: what else can i do? Lisa6534: but it seems like you don't want to do work either Lisa6534: I don't know Lisa6534: because what i want or need, you aren't willing to do because you don't think it's necessary, and that's all i'm going to say Lisa6534: so it's in the past, I've told you how I felt Lisa6534: and I won't say anything else about it again SAMSONITE73: okay, ill go talk to her Lisa6534: i swear SAMSONITE73: and when i come back and tell you Lisa6534: no don't matt SAMSONITE73: what are you going to say? is that gonna help you? Lisa6534: if you dno't think its necessary SAMSONITE73: cause if you seriously think it will help, i'll do it Lisa6534: i just would like to know, answers are always better than questions SAMSONITE73: what i think is necessary is irrelevant Lisa6534: don't worry about it SAMSONITE73: no, i'm gonna talk with her Lisa6534: cause really, if i have had to ask you this many times for you to take me seriously, then maybe it's not necessary Lisa6534: and i'm just being ridiculous Lisa6534: I'm trying to hard not to do things that i think aren't my place Lisa6534: like tell you I never want you to talk to her or see her again Lisa6534: that I think is ridiculous Lisa6534: and not my place to tell you SAMSONITE73: well i dont care about talking to her again, or seeing her again SAMSONITE73: obviously i cant not see her if she's in class Lisa6534: I just didn't think that this was so stupid, to want answers and ask you to try and find them SAMSONITE73: but fine, i wont talk to her Lisa6534: do what you want SAMSONITE73: but if you can't believe me, how is it going from her to me to you going to be any different? Lisa6534: I don't know matt Lisa6534: I don't know what i'm looking for, I don't know what I need Lisa6534: I don't know what i'm doing Lisa6534: i just know that my best friend in the whole entire world has done something that i never ever thought he was capable of Lisa6534: and i don't understand why it happened Lisa6534: or what even happened Lisa6534: because "she kissed me and i didn't stop her" isn't much of a description Lisa6534: and so my imagination runs wild Lisa6534: and honestly in my head SAMSONITE73: well what would make you the most pissed off then darlin? Lisa6534: i see the two of you making out for like 10 minutes Lisa6534: and i picture you kissing her back SAMSONITE73: just think of that, get that angry Lisa6534: and that kills me, because from what i understand of you SAMSONITE73: kick my ass around for it Lisa6534: you dn't just kiss people SAMSONITE73: and let me start trying to get back to where i want to be with you Lisa6534: i don't want to kick your ass SAMSONITE73: no, that's not true SAMSONITE73: i don't think kissing is a big deal either Lisa6534: and i don't want to think the worst Lisa6534: and then work from there SAMSONITE73: but I'VE NEVER HAD THAT MANY PEOPLE WHO'VE WANTED TO KISS ME SAMSONITE73: or that look at me that way SAMSONITE73: i didnt go out at all in high school really Lisa6534: sot hat's why you kissed her? Lisa6534: *that's? Lisa6534: because she wanted to kiss you SAMSONITE73: i didnt kiss a girl until 10th grade SAMSONITE73: no, that's not what i'm saying Lisa6534: I dind't kiss a guy until 11th grade Lisa6534: I went to an all girls school SAMSONITE73: i'm responding to you saying that i didnt kiss a lot of people SAMSONITE73: and i've kissed a ton less people than you have? Lisa6534: you said 9 SAMSONITE73: that doesnt mean i think it's a big deal Lisa6534: i've kissed WAY more than 9 SAMSONITE73: i've just not had the opportunity to kiss a lot of girls Lisa6534: i just assumed you took it more seriously Lisa6534: and anyway Lisa6534: that's not the issue SAMSONITE73: no, not at all SAMSONITE73: but it's part of the issue that i bring up Lisa6534: i just am hoping to hear answers that will make me not have to completely not trust you Lisa6534: that's what i want Lisa6534: i don't wnat to start from scratch SAMSONITE73: you already completely don't trust me! Lisa6534: i have a hard enough time trusting people to begin with Lisa6534: fine then, no answers, i'll think the worst SAMSONITE73: that's not what i'm saying SAMSONITE73: i'm just saying that you're not believing anything i say Lisa6534: that's why i'm saying, do what you want, but not doing things i've asked, isn't a good way to get back to whre we were is all I was thinking Lisa6534: and that I wasn't asking anything hard SAMSONITE73: and you're not gonna trust the answers i give you Lisa6534: you don't know that, at this point SAMSONITE73: well that's what i mean when i say Lisa6534: answers would be better than your cryptic responses Lisa6534: make shit up Lisa6534: lie to me and tell me you talked to her Lisa6534: i jsut want to know SAMSONITE73: haha, alright we'll do this right now then Lisa6534: but this is dumb Lisa6534: i'm gonna go Lisa6534: and don't you dare really lie to me Lisa6534: it's not funny Lisa6534: i'm gonna go before i cry Lisa6534: do what you want SAMSONITE73: and now you're the one saying that this is dumb? Lisa6534: yes i'm dumb SAMSONITE73: that's not what i said at all Lisa6534: i don't know what it is i ened from you matt SAMSONITE73: well if you don't know, how am i supposed to know? Lisa6534: i don't know Lisa6534: because the things i've asked for, you don't want to do, like i said, and i don't wnat you to do anything that ou don't want to do Lisa6534: but really, i don't want to cry again SAMSONITE73: it's one thing Lisa6534: i can't cry again Lisa6534: i need to go SAMSONITE73: that i haven't done Lisa6534: i'll talk to you later SAMSONITE73: okay, i'll talk to you later then Lisa6534: well it's one thing that you did that caused htis problem in the first place.... Lisa6534: i love you Lisa6534: i'll talk to you later Lisa6534: thank you again for the flowers SAMSONITE73: love you, bye Lisa6534: they are gorgeous SAMSONITE73: glad you like them Lisa6534: and i'm sorry that i'm being stupid, and i promise from now on SAMSONITE73: i love you, byebye then Lisa6534: it's forward Lisa6534: i won't ask anything else SAMSONITE73: no, you're not stupid at all SAMSONITE73: and i'm not saying you are Lisa6534: although leslie though a re-enactment might be a good plan if you do come up here Lisa6534: but i won't make you do that either Lisa6534: ttyl SAMSONITE73: okay Lisa6534 is away at 8:23:48 PM.