Ubersexual VS. Metrosexual

Thank you COnvulted

Yes, but outer beuty is the first striking factor, even though noone wants to admit it. First impressions are always the greatest. First step to self confidence is self love.

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Arvandor wrote:Thank you COnvulted

Yes, but outer beuty is the first striking factor, even though noone wants to admit it. First impressions are always the greatest. First step to self confidence is self love.

!) spelt my name wrong, I could re-address this after I've profusely agreed with you and added in my own two-pence, but procrastination tends to kill after a little while, so I'll go now.

2)Okay, yes, MisterWaffles, Arvandor is right. Outer beauty is what gets your attention, the attention to the outer beauty is where one lifts off to explore the inner. Attraction is a great and deep part of every relationship, and it is also the most human, mental attraction comes afterwards. Often, without the attraction and simply compatible personalities, it becomes a friendship and nothing more. And although being without confidence could be a part of who you are, low confidence shouldn't be a normal frame of self-being. Gaining confidence is important, and nobody should settle for not feeling good about themselves. It can be a normal thing. But it doesn't have to, and it shouldn't.[/b]

i suppose you don't necessarily need confidence. but it definately does help. then again, i think the quiet, shy guys can be just as attractive as the confident loud guys.

i think the best advice is to just try and be happy with yourself. try to have the confidence to be yourself. in my mind, that is enough. who would you rather be with? someone loud who has given in to peer pressure and smokes, drinks etc? or someone who is happy enough in themselves that they have no need of following the crowd?

unfortunately, i don't think anyone can tell you exactly what women want, because not all women are the same.