divorce

my parents have been divorced as long as i can remember. it's tough. you just have to grit you're teeth and bear it.
one thing that i haven't ever really understood is why they split. maybe try talking to your mum and dad about it. it can be cringey at the time but you'll be glad you did it at the end. About a year ago i found out why it happened and trust me it was nasty stuff-but painful as it might feel-it will sink in in the end-i promise.
my dad lives in South america and i haven't seen him for 3 years-and now if i want to get in touch it's quite hard-so i really regret not sorting it out in the beginning.
get someone to talk to. don't keep it all bottled up-it's ok to cry sometimes.
DON'T EVER BLAME YOURSELF either. it's not your falt no-matter what you get told!

remember that you're not alone in this-there are thousands of other children who are/have been through what you are going through. There is always someone worse off that yourself.
don't be too hard on your parents either. this is hard for them too.

good luck! chin up and keep smiling! xxxxx

Every thing that acid fairy said pretty much sums it up! And i agree dont blame your self or your parents beacuse nort every thing goes as planned.

My parents are divorced but a lot of my friends are. I believe my friends that have divorced parents out number the ones I have with married, in real life, in internet life I don't know.

I believe this is a major issue, and the meaning "till death do you part" doesn't really HAVE meaning anymore. They are just random words to link money to money.

I don't have any empathy for you I fear... The only thing I can say is, you're so lucky. If there was fighting it's over, if there is pain it will lessen. No hope for The Black Rose though.

Just don't blame yourself, (like acid fairy said) and everything will get better... right? Ok I'll shut up now....

The Black Rose wrote:The only thing I can say is, you're so lucky.

how in the world did you come to that conclusion, my parents are getting adivorce, they are fighting, tension builds, things havent been settled for a year, my mom is crying, my dad is getting yelled at, my familoy is breaking up HOW THE HELL DID YOU COME UP WITH THAT, THAT I AM LUCKY, THAT IS NOT LUCKY!!!!! (sorry for exploding, it just, makes me mad how some people say im lucky, when i fell like i have no luck at all, i dont see how parents getinga divorce could be lucky..)

You're not lucky, Darg. I know it sucks...it's hell, it really is. Just try to stay strong. Have you found someone you can talk to yet?

When you're me, and you know my family, you wish for it to break up.

Listen, Ok I'm sorry, we vary in opinions and i'm a bitch towards life and you're not.

It's just my parents should have broken up years ago. They fight all the time, they are pissed at everybody, take their anger out at me and my brother. I am the good one though, i don't get his as hard.

I have called the cops on them about 2 months ago and my brother was bruised around his neck.

All I want is my dad GONE. My mom wants him gone, honestly I dont' know why she keeps him here becuase he has tried going to college for 3 times, wasted the money, we owe more than the mortagage my mom said.

I am sorry. ok. There are many more things, but I cant tell you, maybe when I'm 18 I'll tell the police... maybe they'll believe me.

sorry it just burst my bubble, it just made me mad, my parents arent still legally seperated, so we stil have to endure fighting, your parents should seperat, because if you had to call the cops that is really bad, you should try t o get somebody to do something about it

no i havent really found somebody to talk to, ohhewwo is ok sometimes....

Only 1 more thing I have to say DIVORCE SUCKS