what do girls/women like?

heh. if only that didn't happen I might... ok, not finishing that sentence (cause Crys over there knows people).

but yeah. I usually stutter, or make myself into a bit of an idiot... seemingly without trying.

For the last time, I'm not gonna do anything with the info, except maybe try to help! Sheesh.

We all do that, hon. Don't worry about it.

I have a friend that keeps giving me tips on flirting and I'm like, "I never know what to say!" She tells me, "So tell them that. They'll be like, 'That's cool.'"

"But I blush!"

"They think it's cute."

"I stutter."

"Double hot."

"I can barely look them in the eye."

"You'll get better."

She is no help whatsoever. Or maybe I've just resigned myself...LOL...

When I girl blushes and smiles, yeah, guys love that. It softens their hearts, you know in an "awwww....that cute.." way. It makes them feel special, and they know that this girl has feelings for him.

Yep, girls blushing and stuttering makes them much more cute and hot, because it reminds us girls are still human and they...I don't know....it makes you want to hold them and love them.

areida07 wrote:Hmm...well, in answer to Jack's question:

Yes. I find guys who are confident and firm in their beliefs EXTREMELY attractive. I was hanging out with one of my friends and she introduced me to some of her friends. One guy who's a couple of years older than me immediately caught my attention because when we were introduced, he said hello and looked me right in the eye and then repeated my name a couple of times (obviously making sure he'd remember it).

And it's not just the confidence he carried himself with, it was the obvious respect that he had for the other people around. At one point, he jumped into the fray of a bunch of people shooting hoops with only two basketballs and snatched one out to give to a smaller kid who'd been trying to get in on the action.

Let me tell you what, I nearly died. Especially when he held the door later and made sure all the girls had gotten their plates of food before serving himself.

Confidence, courtesy, and chivalry are SO FREEKIN' HOT.

Oh, gosh, yes! Couldn't agree with you more!! Being "manly" and "macho" where it's just a facade, and none of it real, I hate. But real confidence is the one thing that really makes me pay attention to a guy.

Crysi wrote:Lol! I do the same, most of the time. And conversations are practically impossible for me. I stutter so much and rush my words that I've given up on talking to guys I like lol.

I blush. All the time. Especially when complimented. But somehow I can always manage to make conversation. And keeping eye-contact. Well... I do that with everyone. It's a matter of respect for me. I just do it. It takes no thought.

Firestarter wrote:Yep, girls blushing and stuttering makes them much more cute and hot, because it reminds us girls are still human and they...I don't know....it makes you want to hold them and love them.

I'm always blushing and stuttering but guys don't think I'm cute/hot what's wrong with me!

And I like a guy who's manly, not overly macho but just sort of in between

areida07 wrote:Let me tell you what, I nearly died. Especially when he held the door later and made sure all the girls had gotten their plates of food before serving himself.

Confidence, courtesy, and chivalry are SO FREEKIN' HOT.

Crysi wrote:Aww, that's so cute! I totally agree. WHERE DO YOU FIND THESE GUYS?!

There's only one here that I know of, and.. no. Just no. lol!

jeez.. I didn't get nearly as good a reaction as that when I said I treat all women like that... lol

they just don't want to admit it Nai--

*laughs*

Well Nai, we figured you're after Tara so we don't have a chance.

By the way, if you ever think of moving to California..

*Mesh interrupts, pulling Crysi away*

dont worry Crys will make a 4 in one black white chocolate
hunter, nai, me, jack *uber blond, blond, dark blond, brunnete*

..You lost me there, hon.

We will make a four-trip to california

When you're done there, will you come to the East Coast?

We should hold some big PAR-TAY somewhere..

I think I could make up a pretty damn good party at my place if I tried.. but of course you would all have to come to Illinois in the United States... ::coughs once and clears throat::


OR we could all hold a huge party in HAWAII!!!!!
::drools::