🎂Ranger51
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Happy birthday!~ I hope you have a wonderful day that's filled with joy - you definitely deserve it! ☆
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Hey guys... you people are awesome, so I wanted to come here and ask for some advice
because that's totally what you guys are here for. Commence long strings of text.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost exactly a year and a half - a long time for high school kids. We haven't had any falling outs, and he's been really good to me and I like him a lot.
But I don't think we're in love, and I want to be friends.
Neither of us have said "I love you" yet. Ever. We only kiss on the cheek, sometimes, after a date, which happens only every month or so. I never feel like my heart is racing when he's around, or like my blood is rushing or whatever. I never get a spark, I never get that feeling - whatever it is - that tells me I'm in love, or even that I have a big crush. And I don't get romantic vibes from him either.
So long story short, I think I love him like a brother, not like a prospective husband, and that's supposed to be what dating is oriented towards (at least for me). I keep telling myself to give things time, but it's been a year and a half. This clearly isn't going to happen.
The only problem is, I still love him as a friend, and I still want our relationship to go on - just not under what I feel is the pretense of romance. How do I tell him this without hurting him or making him angry (he can have a bit of a temper sometimes)? I don't want to feel like I'm living a lie, but I really don't want to ruin my closest friendship.
So that's why I'm asking advice, because people outside of a situation can often tell what to do and I love all of you guys, so I wanted to know if any of you had something to say that might help me.
Iggy Just tell him. There's no fun in being in a relationship with someone you don't have feelings for anymore. Just sit him down and talk to him and explai nit to him. He should understand. Hopefully.
Feb 14, 2014
Ranger51 *returns way too late* Thanks, Iggy. I'll keep this in mind....
Now it's just a matter of actually DOING it >.<
Feb 23, 2014
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I have no idea what to do for Valentine's Dayyyyy
And he always gets me the best gifts too. ;.;
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Hi there!
I%u2019m contacting you on the behalf of HASH magazine.
HASH is an upcoming international magazine that features lit&art along with all things creative and inspired to produce a unique journal with content that resonates in the soul of its contributors and readers.
I reach out to you to explore the chances a possible collaboration.
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A quick reply will be greatly appreciated.
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Co-Editor %u2013 Creative Director : HASH magazine
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Oh hey, the literary spotlights, let me just check which ones--*DRINK SPEW*
ASDFJKL I made the home page? I mean it's probably not that big of a deal but still OH MY GOODNESS AHHH. I'm not supposed to be good at poetry!
Dreamy xP Congrats!
Jan 23, 2014
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Look! It's the publish button! Does it-- oooo, it DOES still work after all this time. Awesome.
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I drove my parents to and from church today.
Like, ME. I drove a CAR. On a FREEWAY. TWICE. And I didn't even total the car or anything.
Mar 14, 2022