No, you really don't need to ask her. Although I might be worse. I mean when a friend said "He might have been held back a few years" I spewed my cheese-and-ham-and-kumato-tomato-and-avacado sandwich. And then proceeded to crack up and accidentally knock my chair over and fall on the floor and then be shocked for a minute and then spew the cheese-and-ham-and-kumato-tomato-and-avacado sandwich again laughing.