As the years
passed, those rings became even more precious. Sometimes when a memory of my
grandfather would fade, I would look and hold my rings, and that memory would somehow
grow stronger again. There were many times, however, when I would be looking at
one of my rings, and a memory of my grandfather would feel so real that it hurt
when I realized it was only a memory. I would never see my grandfather again.
Often tears would come flooding down my cheeks when that realization would sink
into my heart and mind.
Word began to
spread of my unique collection, and more and more people began to show an
interest in my rings. One day I received a letter from a man in a far away land
requesting a loan to his museum for one of my rings. He was especially
interested in the simple silver ring with the yellow gems, and asked to place
this treasure on display for four years in his museum. Four years in a museum
was a long time, but I thought it might be a good way to share my love of the
rings to others. And after all, it would be returned in four years. I agreed
and tried to visit as much as my job would allow. I would often hear stories
from strangers who saw my ring at the museum and marveled at its brilliance and
rarity. At first I felt jealous and would want to bring the ring back home
again. But as the years flew by, I became proud when hearing the stories from
strangers, knowing that was my ring and it would be back home in my possession
in just one more year.
Then came the
phone call. A man had seen my ring at the museum, and was excitedly telling me
how remarkable and beautiful my ring was when I began to sense an urgency in
his voice. He went on to tell me about his own ring. He described it as silver
with delicate a single yellow gem, and then explained that his ring and the one
in the museum were formed by the same jeweler from another land; they were crafted
to complement each other. He offered to pay a price, but admitted he did not
have nearly enough to pay what the cost would be for such a treasure. As we
talked on the phone, I looked over at my remaining five rings. I didn't know
what to say at first and there was a long pause. "Where are you
from?" I finally asked.
"I am
from that land where the jeweler crafted the rings. I am his grandson."
It was then
that I realized this man would keep very good care of my ring. He would cherish
it as much as I did and as much as Grandfather had. I felt confident that
Grandfather would agree with my decision to let this man have the ring and in a
way, return it to its origin. We made an agreement that he could purchase the
ring after the four years were complete with the museum. I asked if I could see
my ring once more and for a picture of the two rings together; he willingly
agreed.
That year,
knowing my ring would be under the care of a new owner in a faraway place, was
very difficult for me. Each time I looked at my other rings, all I kept
thinking about was the one that I was giving to that man. It made me miss the
ring even more. I was comforted, however, knowing that it would be taken care
of correctly, and that it would give another person great joy.
And then,
just when the fourth year was nearly gone and I would once again see my ring
for a brief time, a friend of mine came to visit me. He had always shared my
love for the rings, and he began talking about the wooden ring with the red
gems. He asked if he could hold it. I watched as he carefully tried it on his
ring finger and smiled at the perfect fit. I had to admit that it looked good
on his finger, but there was no way I was letting go of another one of my
rings. Allowing my little silver ring to be under another's care was difficult
enough; this wooden ring was staying here. My friend seemed to sense my
uneasiness, and he gently slid the ring off his finger and handed it back to
me. That was a relief, but it didn't last long when he said, "That ring
would be perfect for my wedding band." I had almost forgotten that he was
getting married in a few months. "May I see it again?" he said
reaching out for the ring. I selfishly wanted to deny him the privilege and put
it back safely in the case, but for some unknown reason, I handed it back to
him. He turned it over on the palm of his hand admiring the detailed work and
stunning red gem. "You know my fiancé's favorite color is red?"
No, I didn't
know, nor did I care. I was keeping this one. He handed me back my ring, and we
began talking about his upcoming wedding. Very cunningly he turned the
conversation back to the ring. "It would be perfect, you know. And it's
not like it will be far away from you. I see you nearly every day!"
He made some
good points; I glanced over at my rings. What would Grandfather think of me
giving our cherished possessions away? I remembered how willing Grandfather was
to share his rings with me, and how pleased he was to see me enjoy them so
much. I thought of the man who would be taking my silver ring away in just a
few months and how happy he was to be getting it. I got up and walked to the
display case. I looked at them and thought of Grandfather. Then I reached for
the wooden ring. I looked at it carefully, and rubbed my finger across the red
gem and the bumpy mountain. A tear came from nowhere and landed on the ring. I
was surprised to learn the tear came from me. I knew I was giving another one
of my rings away.
At first, each
time I gave a ring away, I felt like I was losing a part of Grandfather. Just
the thought of giving away a ring would invoke those feelings, and here I was
about to give away two of my most cherished and prized possessions in the whole
world. Could I even live without them?
As I placed
the wooden ring into the hand of my friend, a calm came over me. Grandfather
would be proud. Our love for these rings was being passed on to others, and
that's what I think he wanted most of all. If there comes a day when another
ring, or even all of my rings, are given away, I would still have Grandfather's
memories and he will still be very dear to me. Letting the rings go, as much as
I will miss them and know it will hurt, also brings a sense of peace in knowing
others will be enjoying them and cherishing them as much as Grandfather and I
have treasured them.And who knows?
Maybe my rings will only be the start to their own collection of rare and
beautiful rings!And hopefully I will be
able to share in loving and treasuring those rings as well.
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