We usually hear these words from elders but I do think some people takes the wrong meaning of this. Like some people only please others for their own reasonsand for this purpose they may use money or the weakness of the other person. In the result, the other person always or some how gets troubles and the person who uses him or her for his purposes, temporily have the right results. But you know, it is the God's promise to pay good for good and bad for bad! The only purpose of mine is to tell those people who are usually involved in these like cases that you should better understand others' feeling because someday you can also stand in the same situation. I hope those people understand for whom this message is!!!!