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How important do you think it is to be good looking? Do you think you have to be fairly attractive to succeed in life? And what, do you think, is the difference between being good looking and attractive?- personally, I think that those two things are really rather unrelated.
First, I do not give a rats ass, what people think of me, lol. So no, I don't think its important to look like a swim suit model. While I believe society's rules state that if you look like you crawled out of bed, then no, you will remain unemployed.
However a lot of the posts I'm reading is related to relationships and such and how 'looks' revolved around that. But what if you meet someone off the street that their 'looks' aren't exactly what society would call normal? What if that person was missing an arm, or say a nose? What if the person crawled on their hands because they were incapable of walking upright? Would it be wise to condemn them?
I have met such a person; a man actually. He lives in my city and his only mobility is his hands(feet in this case) and a special bike he pumps the wheels with his hand. I guess the best way to describe him is that he walks on all fours. He is extremely outgoing, insightful and friendly. Looks are only a mental barrier that our society has filled our head with; in short - brainwashed. So no, there is no difference between good-looking and attractive. You're only limited to what your brain signals to you. And it is quite a shame too because many people judge before knowing someone and therefore you've missed your shot from a possible great friend.
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