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Tue Dec 09, 2008 9:57 pm
lukas8u says...



OK, if anyone knows anything about me, it's that I am a debater. I will debate about anything, but here's what I've noticed. I always end up being a jerk :cry: . I don't mean to, but when you're in the middle of a heated discussion, well, you know.. This is aggravated by the fact that I am typing on a computer.
I would never be as heated as i am when i debate on the computer, because I am actually talking to the person. Not to say I don't realize I'm talking to real people.. but still.

I need help to control my over the top debtedness.
But i can't quit it, because debating is an integral part of who I am.

Please help me..
I am not looking for sympathy.
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Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:00 pm
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Antigone Cadmus says...



Ha, you're just upset because Nate called you a jerk.

I personally thought you weren't, but whatever!





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Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:01 pm
lukas8u says...



Yes.. And it's true.

If it wern't locked i would change it.
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Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:02 pm
Antigone Cadmus says...



It's not you're fault there are so many conservatives in the world :)
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Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:10 pm
Lord Anzius says...



Your telling me you are a jerk in debates. Ha. I got banned because of being a jerk in debates.. Top that. (I am not liable of anything stupid that my earlier remark might or might not make you do....)
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Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:11 pm
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I got kicked out of KFC. HA! Beat that!
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Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:26 pm
OverEasy says...



Bragging about being jerks now?

There is a way to debate without being a jerk, and often times not being a jerk will actually mean that people will hear what you are trying to say.

Being sarcastic, mean, or rude during a debate will typically make people not really care to hear what you have to say. Even if they are on the same side of the debate as you.

I give no sympathy, I debate as well, and even when the debate gets heated, I am capable of keeping my temper and my words in check. Perhaps you should simply learn some self control ;)

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Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:29 pm
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andimlovegalore says...



Maybe you should write out everything, then wait ten minutes before you send it to the site. Then re-read it. And see if you still agree with what you're saying.





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Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:45 pm
Snoink says...



Don't use fallacies. If you're arguments are that heated, most likely it's geared to the emotions and not to logic.

EDIT: Also, I'm locking this as well. It really isn't that big of a deal, so don't sweat too much about it. Just learn from your mistakes and continue on. That's all we ask.
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