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Girls tease, A rant

sabradan · 2005-10-26T05:11:11Z

Now, normally, I'm not one to post details of my private life, but I am just so very frustrated at the moment I need to vent to individuals I most likely will never meet in real life. Also, if you have advice, I welcome it. Ok, here goes: This girl and I, lets call her "Jane", are in the same botany lab at school. We met through there, and we started talking and being freindly. I told her I was doing poorly and she wanted to help so she gave me my number. I called it, we studied, then we hung out just to hang out. Since then, we've hung out a couple times, and we have fun together. I know I have fun, and she seems to enjoy my company as well. Now, when I call her, she never answers her phone. I know for a fact that girls like it when guys call them, so I don't know whats up. We were supposed to hang out today after class, but she said she stayed up till 4 am writing a paper, she wanted to go home and sleep wich is understandable. We agreed that we were going to hang out later today, and that I should call her about 7. So, 7 oclock rolled around, I called her about 7 oclock. She doesnt pick up. I figure she's busy or something, and doesnt hear it ring or something. I wait about 45 minutes, and call again. No answer, I left a message, but still. Its seems to me, at least, I am getting mixed messages. She tells me she enjoys my company, and she acts/looks/seems like she does, yet when I call her she seems to be avoiding me--or the most forgetful girl I have ever met. Now, is it just me over analyzing this, or am I getting mixed messages and mixed signals? Is this a "normal" step that girls like to use during the game/"hunt" so to speak, although that really is a crude term...? Because, in my experience so far, I havent experienced anything like this. Now, normally, I would care less, especially since we arent even dating...yet. BUT, I REALLY like this girl, and I want her to date me. So, I don't want to appear annoying/needy/desperate, whatever, but I still want to appear interested. Again, normally, I'd just let it happen as it comes, but I like this girl a lot and I don't want to f"*** my chances. So, In conclusion, I am being given mixed messages, and it is confusing and irritating the hell outta me. Thank you, that is all. Any comments, ideas, words of encouragement?

thegirlwhofateloves

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Thu Nov 10, 2005 2:19 pm

thegirlwhofateloves says... · Thu Nov 10, 2005 2:19 pm

Who, me? Noooo....no! I didn't do it deliberately - that's my point.
I don't play games. I just let guys buy me drinks...lol

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Girls tease, A rant

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