I am a nineteen year old literature enthusiast, who can not spend a day without reading, and tries not to spend one without writing, though the later is much difficult. I'd just use some words by Jodi Picoult to say it all: "Let me tell you this: If you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it's not because they enjoy solitude. It's because they have tried, to blend into the world before and people continue to disappoint them."
