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I remember his strong arms that would wrap me in a hug when I needed it most. I remember his unusual green, hazel, blue eyes that would capture my interest for hours. I remember his big grin, his cute dimples and his hearty laugh that would ring in my heart. I remember the days he showed up unexpectedly with beautiful bouquets. I remember the picnics, the soft kisses, the romantic moments that would have made an audience go Awwww. I remember wondering what I did to deserve such an angel.
I remember it all.
I also remember the accident that took it all away. The rain pounded down relentlessly, obscuring his sight and the sight of drivers around him. The glaring digital clock on his dashboard gleamed 7:47 and the tiny voice blaring out of his radio warned drivers from driving in this weather and urged everyone to stay indoors. The forest green Jeep was doing remarkably well in the conditions, the windshield wipers on overload. Yet, it wasn't good enough. He hydroplaned down Route 17 on his way to pick me up for our anniversary date, crashing into a white Sedan, where a family of four were discussing vacation plans. He didn't panic at first, he tried to turn the car in any direction, away from the impeding doom of the large wall directly ahead of him. The flowers and chocolate he had bought had scattered all around. He slammed down on the brakes in a vain attempt to stop the car. The car swerved and for a small second he believed he might be able to brake and get out unscathed. The second didn't last very long.
He was rushed into surgery the minute the paramedics arrived. He was unconscious and his heartbeat was very weak but he was still alive. He had major trauma to the head and both legs were broken. Numerous cuts and bruises but those were unimportant compared to the mass of scarlet red blood dripping out of his head, onto his black and white tuxedo. I arrived with tears flowing down my face faster than the Niagara Falls. The paramedics wouldn't let me in to see him on the "fact" that I wasn't family. How would they have known that he was planning on bringing me into his family just that night? How would they have known a gleaming diamond ring in a perfect little black box lay rested in the locked glove compartment of the wrecked car? They didn't know so I was forced out by security screaming his name.
I sat in the waiting room and sobbed, ignoring the pitiful looks of the others around me. I twisted the promise ring around my fingers, remembering the night he gave it to me. That did nothing to comfort me and I cried more still. The room was decorated with shocking pink hearts and red roses hanging from the ceiling. There was a big sign at the entrance reading Happy Valentines Day. Were these doctors heartless and insane? Do they not see the sick irony that at the surgery and heart attack wing of the hospital they put up Valentines Day decorations? At one point, a nurse came to me with a box of tissues but I ignored her.
When his mother came in and saw me her face turned ghost white and she sat next to me, her face blank. She was in shock and the tears would come later. His father hurried into the surgery room and came out a little bit later, his mouth open a little.
"He's comatose. They said that his brain's a vegetable. They said he'll never wake."
I mentally collapsed. I ran, screaming through the double doors, pushing past the mass of doctors and nurses. They all had permanent worry lines and their eyes were dull. I ran into his room and when I saw his limp body, the legs in casts and the endless amount of cuts and bruises, I physically collapsed but a faceless doctor held me up.
I was admitted for shock for two days. I was not allowed to visit him and I had an IV tube up my arm. The nurse had to change the pillow repeatedly because they became too damp with my tears.
When I was released I was a shell of my former self. I was called to pick up the Jeep from the mechanic. When I saw it, all gleaming perfect and shiny new, I grabbed the nearest crowbar and mutilated it. The workmen just stood back and watched, mouths open, as the pretty lady with limp, ragged brown hair and fiery green eyes slammed the crow bar into the windows and trunk of the car that took them two days to fix up.
When I saw the Jeep as clean and normal as it was before, my heart broke because I knew he would never be that way again. Each strike of the crow bar, symbolized a memory of a sweet thing he had done. The cold winter air seeped through my body and cooled my boiling blood yet froze my heart and made me as evil and frigid as it was.
I was greeted with over 20 messages on the answer machine when I got home. I deleted them all without even listening and fell on my bed, cowering under the warm sheets. The other side of the bed was as empty as I was.
Family and friends visited each with their own choreographed speech on how sorry they were, and what a shame it was but I blocked it all out. I wasn't there. This hadn't happened. I was back to the picnic at Central Park where he told me he loved me for the first time or back to July 4th at Six Flags where I rode the Batman ride and held his hand the whole way. I wasn't being called over and over by my parents, I wasn't hearing the whisper, whisper from my co-workers when I went in to ask for a break from the boss.
I definitely wasn't waking up screaming and crying, praying that this hadn't happened.
I wished I could say I visited every day and sat at his side every night but I didn't. I never visited, I never wanted to look at his blank, unseeing face. I didn't want to smell the scent of the antiseptic and bleach. I didn't want to see the faces of other crying wives who as I did, twist the rings promising love till death do them part.
I lay on my bed, standing only to use the bathroom and eat. After months and months of crying, my voice was hoarse and raspy and I could only whisper. I never watched TV or checked my email.
Remarkably, I wasn't fired for my boss had a kind heart. Since I was vice president of the company and had been working with them for over 4 years, she gave me paid leave for about 4 months. After I showed no sign of returning, she called up and told my voicemail that she decided to change it to unpaid leave but whenever I was ready to go back to work I would be accepted and that I should call her.
Many people said that. Over time, my voicemail was filled to the brim with messages from people telling me to call them back. I deleted them all and soon the calls stopped. Close family came to visit occasionally, pressing little envelopes into my hands to pay the bills with. I didn't want money. I wanted him.
I was an empty invalid in the mass of nothing that had become my life.
8 months later
I woke dazily, looking around the room. With a sudden epiphany, I realized that this was the first night in months that I hadn't woken with tears drying on my face. I turned my pillow so it was on the cold side and seeped into the Comfort Pedic material. After a couple of minutes of laying numbly, I did something I haven't done in about a year. I looked around for the remote, found it under the bed, swept off the dust bunnies and turned on the television.
The voice of the newscaster hurt my ears from the months and months of hearing nothing but my sniffling and the occasional bird outside my window. She wasn't even that loud yet I still contemplated turning it off.
I listened to what she was saying and looked up at the screen.
"As you may know, Valentines day is one of the most romantic days of the year, so this is why, according to statistics, over 1 million couples in America are getting married or engaged today. Those caterers have a lot of work! Now off to Arnold with the weather. Arnold?"
I felt like puking. It had been a year. A whole year...and I hadn't been to see him even once. I figured it was pretty ironical that I have my comeback exactly one year from the accident.
My mind tried to wrap around the concept. 365 days ago on a cold winter night, a young handsome man in a ripped up tuxedo had been brought into the ER and was diagnosed with a coma. 365 days ago, my perfect romantic world had crashed down around me and as much as people tried, the only person who could fix it was brain-dead on a hospital bed.
With sudden urgency, I rushed off the bed and ran into the bathroom. I washed my face and brushed my teeth rapidly. I picked out the nicest outfit I had and grabbed my car keys and wallet. I ignored the pangs of hunger and practically ran out to the garage, ignoring the shocked looks of the desk man and doorman.
I didn't even know what I was doing. How was this day any different from any other? Those thoughts didn't even slow me down and I almost collided into the garage door on the way out.
Traffic was light so I got to the hospital in record time. The nurse at the desk was patient with me, yet infuriating.
Where was my I.D? Who would I like to see today? Oh...alright, room 23 on floor 8, happy valentines day!
The elevator took too long to come so I sped up the stairs, scaring many a doctor and nurse who crossed my path. The tired looking nurse walked me to his room and whispered something about Valentines day. I just waited for her to leave and finally she reluctantly walked away, looking back at me every couple of steps.
I looked at the door handle. The shiny, silver door handle. I could step back, walk away and ignore the pitiful looks from the nurse. Or I could twist and push it and be plopped in a room of the unknown.
I chose the latter. I closed my eyes, pushed the heavy, metal door and was startled to see the mass of machines, each explaining things I would never understand. I didn't look at him yet, but noticed the heart beat machine, with the steady zigzagging lines and the beeps it kept making.
I shut my eyes tight, turned to where he lay and peeked out. He looked innocent in sleep. I slowly walked to him and sat in the cold metal chair beside the bed. I tentatively put my hand to his face and traced the long scar that he had acquired that night. I just sat there for over 3 hours, tracing that scar over and over until the nurse came and told me visiting hours were over.
I wish I could tell you that as I was leaving, I kissed him goodbye and like Sleeping Beauty, his eyes opened and he jumped up and proposed to me. I wish I could tell you that I was completely myself again after that year long depression. I wish I could tell you everything worked out and we all lived happily ever after. But it didn't. That's just not how life works.
I left the hospital that day and visited every day after, trying to make up for lost time, even though it was months before he showed a sign of improvement. I am more pessimistic and get melancholy easier. Even though everything didn't work out at that moment, I rekindled my relationships with my friends and family and was back to my job in another month. After two long years, after that accident, he woke up.
We married February 14, 2014.
I guess life has a funny way of working out.
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