Hmmm....I think there is a better way to put this, actually. The way you have it, anything other than completely on the right or completely on the left is Bisexual.
Perhaps if you did something like this...
1)Gay/ Bi/ Straight
2) "Girly"-------------------"Manly"
Perhaps that would make things a little more open? I'm using stereotypes, yes, but they seem to work better than saying "I'm kind of gay...but not really..." or "I'm mostly straight, but man that guy's cute..."
Understand what I'm saying?
--Q
"I wish not to be understood, but to understand...I wish not to be loved, but to love!"
--Clare of Assissi
My friend once told me that she thinks everyone goes through a period of confused sexuality in their teenage years. We both agree that you can't state whether you're gay, straight, or bi until your hormones settle back down and you don't have so much going on.
I stand on the Straight side. Thats for sure. ((REMAINDER DELETED))
HUNTER'S EDIT: Let's just leave it at that shall we?
Response: Peh sure.
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You shouldn't judge a book by it's cover, instead, you should read every single book to see what every book is about before you even come close to judging its viability.
Straight here. Grif, I disagree with your statement, however. I think that if you are confused as to what your sexuality is, you SHOULD be dating, to be exploring, so to speak, your sexuality, to see where you do in fact, fit in best.
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I don't think it's anything to worry about. What will be, will be, so to speak. The key is to have fun! I'm very attracted to girls - as attracted as I am to guys BUT I don't think I'd want a relationship with a girl, so I'm not sure where I'd place myself on that scale.
I guess I'm here on the attraction scale, somewhere right in the middle
Chicks just don't do it for me. But the thought of a guy with nice muscular arms in a button down shirt with the sleeves rolled up to the elbows... mmm... just something about those forearms...
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- Dale Carnegie
My personal belief is that you can't really say what you are until you've attempted everything and said to yourself well thats for me or no thats not for me, if you get my drift.
Hell there are some chicks out there that turn me on.
And a defined jaw line, stubble and nice forearms...hmmm...eye sex....
I really don't think you can put yourself on a line. but hey, to each his own.
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i think in a way everyone is somewhat attracted to both the same and opposite sex
if we didn't have some sort of attraction to the same sex you would be disgusted with our own body and the way we think and everything about us
just think about it, next time you find a member of the same sex you feel attracted too, see if they have a quality of yours that could make you like them in a more sexual way then a friendly way
it worked for my friend, she wrote down the one thing that really attracted her to that person and then wrote all the things she didn't like about that person, then she didn't feel attracted to them anymore
i don't know if that works for everyone though but i see this whole topic as, it's the time when you want to explore whats out there besides what you know and what everyone else want you to want. i think no one is completely gay or completly straight but that just my opinion
