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windrattlestheblinds

wind rattles the blinds

  • Art & Photography Re: I draw sometimes, too

    ...i've done a ridiculous amount of drawing since the last time i logged in here. oops? let's see... (this is one of the things i ended up giving to the ...

    Jan 17, 2015
  • Serious Discussion and Debate Re: Raising children gender neutral

    here's the thing though: if you have a baby, refuse to assign a gender, and then the baby is taken away from you and assigned a gender anyway, you have ...

    Oct 21, 2014
  • Serious Discussion and Debate Re: Raising children gender neutral

    There'd simply be an understanding that sex and gender are separate facets of identity with no inherent overlap and that men and women are but two of an enormous range ...

    Oct 20, 2014
  • Serious Discussion and Debate Re: Raising children gender neutral

    Kay for one thing: 1-2% of the world's seven billion people is not an insignificant number and I want you to sit and think about this for a moment. Really ...

    Oct 19, 2014
  • Lounge, The Re: What's that one song for writing?

    *cough* ...quite apart from adoring the song, it's bizarrely good writing music.

    Oct 18, 2014
  • Serious Discussion and Debate Re: Raising children gender neutral

    to an extent you're right, and yes, gender neutral child rearing in the fullest sense of the term is an impossible ideal. even so, there's no reason not to at ...

    Oct 16, 2014
  • Serious Discussion and Debate Re: Raising children gender neutral

    there is no such thing as a "male" sex and there is no such thing as a "female" sex. My penis says otherwise. your penis, individually, is a male penis ...

    Oct 16, 2014
  • Serious Discussion and Debate Re: Raising children gender neutral

    ...what?! An opportunity to recap on this topic now that I have a baby? :) It's really important for the parents (and anyone who takes physical care of the baby) ...

    Oct 16, 2014
  • Serious Discussion and Debate Re: Raising children gender neutral

    personally i'm of the opinion that assigning gender at birth is a patently ridiculous thing to do anyway , because the process of gender assignment literally boils down to 1. ...

    Oct 15, 2014
  • Art & Photography Re: I draw sometimes, too

    so the thing is coming along. also, i recently re-discovered the brushes app on my phone.

    Oct 9, 2014
  • Art & Photography Re: I draw sometimes, too

    thanks! :D there is a very real chance i'm going to get to go back to then she fell this december, so... i'm planning on drawing a thing and getting ...

    Oct 6, 2014
  • Fiction Discussion Re: Idea help?

    Wonderland! Yes! Always with the more Wonderland. Okay that said. Reinterpretations of Wonderland are hard. There’s a lot of them already; it’s really hard to establish yours as unique and ...

    Oct 1, 2014
  • Art & Photography Re: I draw sometimes, too

    this thing took over my life for the last two days. aaand then she fell!hatter has officially joined the ranks of characters i'm willing to draw hands for. i hate ...

    Sep 21, 2014
  • Serious Discussion and Debate Re: Abusive Relationships

    Any relationship characterized primarily by fear, anxiety, and unhappiness on the part of one person is toxic at the very least . If the other person operates through powerplays, manipulation, ...

    Sep 8, 2014
  • Serious Discussion and Debate Re: Fanfiction Debate

    Personally the queering of cis straight characters is one of the main draws of fanfiction, because I get so tired of seeing cis straightness everywhere. Like, I don't read or ...

    Sep 4, 2014


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