Love is considered as the sweetest word in dictionary but actually it is a word with the most cruel meaning. Love is a name of the hardest exam among all nature’s tests. Love basically means to sell yourself to someone or something (your dreams).
When we say I LOVE YOU means I AM YOUR SLAVE NOW ONWARDS. I am not considering just that puppy love. Love happens with everything you need or you want; you like or you crave for. It can be your family, friends, your dreams and yeah obviously your girl/boy friend.
Let me elaborate the different kinds.
Love with family is firstly love of the blood i.e. this sacred love runs in the blood. This is just so clearly natural. You have to love them because this love was created before your arrival into this world. It comprises of natural factor plus need factor. The things you need, you love them too. As in you need your family so you love them. I know I am being quite insane rite now but try realizing the fact; remind the stories you hear about people killing their family members for some materialistic sake. Guess where the sacred love goes then? It is dominated by some other love. What do you say now love is sweetest or brutal?
There is another love which we do with our desires, our passions. For this we can sacrifice every other love; family love; friends’ love. We can go to another corner of the world to achieve our goals leaving our priceless relations far behind. Sometimes you claim that we are achieving our goals to comfort our loved ones. This is true to some extent but guess what there is no your own goodness involved in it. This is all due to the love which nature created between us and our families.
SIGH!
The funniest love happens between oppositely sexed people. It is basically not love but just an urge to fulfill our soul and hormonal desires. I feel really bad to call it DESPERATION as it embarrasses me too but whatever. IT IS!
People die for a girl or a guy. MANN!! They do not die for each other but for their own internal desires. Sometimes they don’t understand which internal desire is dominating and literally end their lives on a wrong reason. This is really awful.
What I want to conclude is WE LOVE NOBUDY BUT OURSELVES..!! We love our dreams our passions our needs and the things (or persons) we crave for. For instance if we like a wrist watch we like it; get crazy for it. And try to get it by hook or by crook. The watch is now important for us. We give it our attention you can say we love it. In all this we don’t love watch but love our desire to get the thing we like. This is the love to satisfy your *having-what-i-like* nature. The same happens with the people around us (except for the natural love) and with our soul mates. We say we love them; we desire them but in fact we love our desires; we love our likeness; WE LOVE OURSELVES. In loving ourselves we give some part of it to others and call it TRUE LOVE. Ha Ha!
So friends now I should be quiet and confess one thing. I LOVE MYSELF. I mean I love my family my friends and my dreams. I am that an ordinary person and need to have all kinds of love in my life otherwise how would I able to fulfill my inner being and my natural hormones of love.
Writing all this I just tried to lessen my love for all the people dear to me. I wish I don’t love them because when I’ll have to lose them I would fall down like a dying leaf off the tree. And I am really not succeeded in relating love with selfishness. What do you say?
LOVE IS COMPLICATED
LOVE IS CRUEL!!
