Speaking from a religious rather than a poetic/writing standpoint, it's Vilnius with a review. As such, think of this as a written agreement of what you've said rather than a review.
You have described a major problem I see in many church denominations and some individual churches:
The treatment of women.
Some churches, especially Churches of Christ I've gone to, treat women as little more than objects or playthings destined to bow to the "man of the house" and worship the ground their husbands, fathers, grandfathers, etc walk on. I see this as a disgrace, not only as a Christian, but also as an American that was raised to treat everyone equally.
I currently am a member of the Church of the Nazarene, a denomination I have been a member of for six-ish years now. My first pastor in this denomination-- which seemed almost foreign compared to the churches of my youth-- was very laid back and more like the Acts 2 kind of church I had been raised to support. Everyone had power and influence in church decisions-- men, women, children, gays, lesbians, blacks, whites, etc. Every voice was heard, something that the New Testament Churches supported. Really, it was a culture shock. I'd been raised mostly by my mother, but taught to act a little differently by old white men. (Never have I seen a non-white person enter a typical Church of Christ, excluding a mega church in Arkansas).
I've been back to Churches of Christ since that culture shock and have been utterly disgusted by what I've seen. While of Nazarene pastor thought it was more welcoming to dress as he would on any other day (good blue jeans and a polo/button up), the Deacons and the Ministers would scold or mock you for not wearing a lovely dress or suit and tie.
What have these churches become? I realize I've mainly been comparing Churches of Christ to Nazarenes, but this is an inter-denominational issue. Baptsists, Methodists, and even some Nazarenes still treat women as inferior, or (at the very least) think them unable to make these major decisions dealing with the church. Why is it like this? How have we come to these times?
What happened?
...rereading all of that, I think I've accidentally vented parts of my life as a religious person. If it's too rant-y, let me know! XD
Have a nice [*insert time of day*]!!!
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