She remembered when she held them for the first time, both of them.
She remembered their shape, the color of their hair, the sound of their cry, and the feeling of their tiny body fitting right in the crook of her arms, as if that space was made for them and only them. She remembered going home with her baby son, he cried all the way home and probably gave their driver a migraine. She was freaking out of course, she knew how to be the mother still awaiting the arrival of her baby, always complaining and grumbling, lashing out on people and having secret conversations with her baby at nights. She knew how to do all of that, she had been doing it for 9 months.
But now he was there, her little Kevin, in her arms and she had no idea how to be a mother to him, a mother that he deserved. Because her baby deserved the world, and what if she couldn't give it to him? All of a sudden she was in charge of this entire new human being, this entire new universe of hopes and dreams and maybe she wasn't ready for it. Max, her husband had been a saint through it all. He had found her, and he had taken her into his arms, comforted her and told her that they were going to be the best parents in the entire freaking world. And in that moment, with their son in her lap and his arm around her, she had believed him. They were going to be the best. How could they not?
The next time with Sara, it was easier. She knew the pain, the nerves, the mood swings and the overwhelming desire to see her little one, to introduce her to the world and watch her see it for the first time. She was anxious, of course. Kevin was only 4 years old at the time and he was not an easy kid to handle. He was always running around the house, bumping into furniture, crying his eyes out and repeating words from the tv to their neighbors. He was always excited, always smiling or crying - everything was always at extremes with him.
The only time he had been quiet was when he saw his little sister for the first time. He looked at her, as if she was this new expensive toy he had no idea how to play with, and he just kept on looking. She had caught him looking at her several times while she had been sleeping in her crib, examining her and touching her gingerly like she was some foreign specimen and would explode at the slightest disturbance.
Of course, the dynamics changed somewhat as Sara learned to walk and talk. By then, Kevin had already recruited her to his own personal army and together the brother and sister wreaked havoc in the house. There was never any silence, never any peace or rest. Furniture were always breaking, walls were always being redecorated and they had tucked away all their expensive china in fear of losing another important heirloom to their daily target practicing games around the house. It took a lot of patience to deal with them and not snap as she regularly wanted to. But then one of them would do something extremely cute, and just like that, her anger would melt and it would all start to make sense again.
It was fun, those early years when everything was simple. Childhood - she got to experience it all over again, albeit with slightly different lenses, but it was fun nevertheless. Their first snowfall, first fight, first day in school, first ride on a bicycle and first swim in the pool, all those firsts became hers too and she cherished those days and those memories. She watched them. She watched them play, watched them fight, watched them study and she watched them grow. It used to be their favorite thing to do, hers and Max's - watching their children.
It was not always easy. They had their bad moments as parents, they made wrong decisions and were too hard on them sometimes. And it didn't help that along with being the most difficult child in the universe, Kevin also grew up to be the most difficult teenager in the universe. It was hard, keeping up with all his moods and still be patient. It was always easier with Sara. She had this calmness about her, this inner understanding within her about the world, and they honestly wondered sometimes how one child could be so different from the other.
But as they watched them interact, watched them fight with each other and for each other through life, they understood. Kevin and Sara - they had their own two-man army. They balanced each other, and no matter how much they fought or cursed each other, one was always there for the other. It was amazing to watch, really.
Kevin finished college and joined a band. He sang really well and they always knew that the 'desk life' would not hold him for long. He plays in clubs now, goes on tours and actually makes a lot of money. Sara on the other hand, had always been so in love with her books that it was impossible to separate her even after completing her studies. She is a teacher now, she teaches English. They never wondered about her or him. In their own universe, it made perfect sense - where they were and where they had ended up in life.
They used to be so proud whenever they came to visit. They would sit around the table and Kevin with all his excitement, would narrate stories about the band, Sara would say something funny about her students and they would sit talking and laughing till late into the night. And the two of them would watch them, as they had always loved to do. Max would look at her across the table and give her this look that said, 'See? And you were worried about being a mother!'
Today they are sitting around the table again. Max is no longer with them, his seat now left empty. But as she looked around her and watched Sara feed her daughter and Kevin narrate some incredibly funny story to the group, she smiled. Yes, Max was no longer with them. He didn't get to watch Kevin get married or Sara deliver their first grandchild, but he was with them right now, sitting at this very table, holding her hand and giving her that same look.
She didn't need to worry. They might not have been the perfect parents, but they had been the parents to the most beautiful children in the universe. How could their little family not be the best in the whole wide world?
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