" I have been a struggling mathematician all my life! And, I am perfectly fine with it now." But, I still can't decide what was worst that I labeled myself as a loser or some people who told me the same thing through their actions. There were some people who couldn't help and some pretended that they couldn't. But I have been always inspired by the people who became my sunshine in the darkest times. There were some people who made me believe that I am not a loser until I believe to be one. Seeing their spirit I decided that I will be someone's sunshine in whatever way I can.
I feel we all are " God's beautiful children." And we are bound to help each other in whatever way we can. From the day I realized this truth, I promised myself either to be a sunshine or be a help to someone. I think there are so many people in the world who are heartbroken, indifferent, pessimistic about whatever they do in life. If I wasn't encouraged to be happy, confident, and to overcome my fears I wouldn't be whatever I am today.
On this path, you will find so many people who will name it as : drama, buttering, self interest and what not. Don't care about them. I feel if you can, then do something and if you can't, don't belittle anybody. You will feel that some of your receivers took your advantage. Just distance yourself from them.It doesn't matter who and how you help. The feeling, help, and emotion must be genuine.