On Marriage
What age is a reasonable age for marriage?
This depends on the culture the people involved were raised in. Kids in ancient Rome were more or less ready to get married when they were twelve, but I wouldn't approve of twelve year olds marrying now.
What events would have to happen before you would consider marriage?
... before I would consider marriage? I'd want to have lived with the person in question for awhile, to see if we work well together, but other than that, I really don't know.
What kinds of things would you NEVER do for your spouse?
... certain perverted sexual activities. *cough*
What kinds of roles would you see yourself doing within the marriage?
If I had to pick "husband" or "wife," I'd pick "husband," but I'd much rather be with someone who can share the duties of bread winning and household chores.
What kinds of roles would you see your spouse doing?
Other than washing dishes (which I hate), the only thing I'd want is someone who, again, would split the work with me.
How would you react with the possibility of an arranged marriage?
BLEARGH.
No, seriously. I'd twitch and scream and run like hell.
An arranged marriage with someone older than you?
Remember my disgusted reaction to the previous question? Double it once for every five years older than me that they are.
(This would be one of those that depends on the culture; in the middle ages, girls were pretty much raised knowing they'd marry an older man and probably wouldn't freak out quite as much.)
If your spouse cheated on you, how would you react?
I would be crazy pissed, kick their ass out, drain any joint bank accounts and file for divorce.
Would you be ashamed if you thought about cheating?
I would hate myself if I even thought about it.
Would you want any children?
I'd be a terrible mother, so no, absolutely not.
Is divorce an option?
Yes, but only if we've tried everything else (counseling, &c.) first. (Unless it was a matter of infidelity or abuse, in which case I'd kick them out so fast they wouldn't know what hit 'em.)
Under what circumstances?
Er, see above. (^)
If there was children from a previous marriage, how much would you want the children to be with you?
... as much as my spouse wanted them to be. While I wouldn't want my own children, I wouldn't deprive kids of their parent because I'm selfish.
...the mother?
... it would depend on her.
Consider yourself at the age you are currently. Are you ready for marriage?
Oh, ew. No way.
Prostitution
Would you support prostitution?
If the hooker in question honestly wants to be doing what he or she is doing, more power to them. Forcing prostitution, however, should result in immediate [graphic punishment].
What happened if prostitution became legalized by the government?
Well, conservatives would have a cow.
I, personally, would be okay with it so long as it was regulated and there was a way to ensure that sex workers had the same rights and protections as any other profession.
If you found out that your spouse used prostitution services before the marriage, how would you feel?
... eeeh. I'd want details. How did he treat his hookers?
If you found out that your spouse continued using these services after you two were married, how would you feel?
... remember what I said I'd do if they cheated on me? It would be worse (for them) if they had to pay someone for it. I'd be so insulted, I might just die.
Lovers
Love outside of marriage?
... not good; emotional infidelity is still infidelity.
Sex outside of marriage?
It would be okay, so long as they're both cool with it. (Say they're swingers or something and they both enjoy it.) If it was not cool with both partners and/or one or both of them was doing it in secret, then no.
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